How can you differentiate between pre-c.u.m and "ejaculation without stimulation"?

Usually when my boyfriend and I foreplay, he would dribble a little here and there, I'm extremely positive this is pre-c.u.m. and sometimes he doesn't produce this at all. but there have been occasions where he has confused me, a few questions: but there are times when he's kneeling on me and touching, and I'm not even touching him down there, his entire front of his pants would get wet, and after awhile sometimes, he'd say he can feel sth coming out. cause I'm sure he didn't orgasm, he acts very twitchy when he orgasms b4 shooting. 1) when he says he can "feel", meaning he can feel his pre-c.u.m coming out? is tt possible? 2) are those instances above just LOTS of pre-c.u.m or ejaculation without stimulation? if its the latter, how is it possible, I didn't even touch or stimulate him!
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  • You can feel when you are leaking pre-cum. It's an unusual sensation, and I suppose a guy might not recognise it if he's new to it. His first indication might be feeling that his penis head is wet.

    It's possible those instances are lots of precum. It's also possible they are ejaculation without stimulation and even without orgasm.

    A guy can reach spontaneous orgasm. They do it in their sleep often enough. It's not that unusual.

    It is also possible for a guy to ejaculate without orgasm. Though that's far less likely. Basically, what happens is that the guy gets really close to climax, and then whatever was causing him the stimulation stops, and stops utterly. As his approach to orgasm subsides, the body can be tricked into ejaculation anyway. It's usually slower than the ejaculate that comes out from orgasm. More likely to ooze, rather than shoot. (The kegel muscle might flex weakly once or twice, instead of violently as during orgasm.)

    If you really want to differentiate between pre-cum and ejaculate, you go by the colour. Precum is clear, or only very very lightly speckled with sperm. Ejaculate is opaque.

    • ok, so you can feel pre-cum leaking, that's solved! hmm so it could be either one, lots of precum or ejaculation without stimulation. I didn't go see though, so I'm unsure. what causes this "rivers" of precum? he usually doesn't produce that much. and the only time I really knew he ejaculated was when he orgasmed (And that was really obvious) and really shot a load of stuff...

    • In my experience, I only leak a lot of pre-cum if I'm highly stimulated and being held at that level. Like in tantric sex. Or a long leisurely hand-job. Normally, during sex, it's like a race to the finish, so I'm always moving forward to the destination. This is more like when you're on a long distance run, but then you stop and start jogging on the spot. You're still active, but you're not moving forward anymore. Not sure if that analogy helps.

    • ah I'm sure it does, except I'm not processing it well at this time of the night! ha. and while its possible for a guy to ejaculate without an orgasm... would it be possible for him to ejaculate without STIMULATION? cause he certainly wasn't being touched at all, he was dg the touching. thx for your answers! :)

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  • It could very well be a minor small orgasm if it's noticeable through his pants but he doesn't want you to think he is a premature ejaculator. It is possible to leak come without an actual climatic orgasm. Remember, sex is 99% mental, and you don't need physical stimulation to come or orgasm.

    Either way, treat it like any other come (ie. You can still get pregnant if you use no protection).

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