How can you spice up sex a little more?

I want to spice up our bedroom fun. The same routine is just been getting boring.
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  • I hooked up and we use bed restraints on each other in addition to blindfolding. We also have a cute heart sex wedge pillow from liberator that works for great positions and deeper better angles. But candles, lubes and massage oils are incorporated all the time, toys like vibrators we buy from WeVibe I surprise and use on her. I also bought her a womanizer premium last year which is prob still her fav toy. I love wearing and using 2 diff vibrating cock rings which work amazing and makes her scream and cum hard. But it’s def never boring and they help us connect and bond in more amazing ways with the exploring each other then just stick it in and have sex one of a few positions. What she does for me is, is she might wear sexy lingerie, and what really sets me off is when she goes out and gets her nails done and they look so nice and she uses them on me to lightly scratch and tickle me and then scratches harder and digs them into me during sex. But it’s all about knowing each other and pushing each other to keep going outside their comfort zones and being themselves. I just bought her vibrating panties I can’t wait to try soon on an upcoming date night. I want to control the remote, drive her crazy, and then rush out somewhere to have hot passionate sex!

  • You have a horse, so both of you go naked horse back riding, to a place where you can stop and fuck away in nature. Going at it in nature, can be a lot of fun, and feel fresh and free. If you can't go naked, then wear something very skimpy, no bra. At home, role play, dress up like a teacher, nurse, maid, etc. Have him go to a hotel with a restaurant. He arrives first at the restaurant. Then you arrive. Again, not bra, and no panties. Seduce him as if you don't know each other, and get a room for the night when he can't take it any loner, and has to fuck. Go on a mini-vacation or weekend vacation to anywhere romantic. If you don't have much money, you can get a small tent. There are lots of places to get away from others, and have a great fucking time. And time to spend together.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You can start with having sex in different rooms of your house/apartment. This would mean different positions which means better sex. Another thing you can do is add toys ( for him and you) and with the wide varieties of toys , you'll always have new options to keep things hot 😏

  • Do the unexpected. A crawl under the table blowjob at breakfast. Bent over the counter kitchen sex. Sex toys, light restraints for you or him.
    But also be willing to discuss what other kinks you'd be willing to explore, might enjoy.

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  • What is your current routine? Are you guys still pretty vanilla?

  • Change things up. Play sex games and make sex cards for each other. When he does something nice then give him s coupon to redeem a blowjob or his favorite position.

  • I don't put anything in my ass but I out it in my partner

  • Tie him down, stuff your panties in his mouth, and ride him to orgasm

  • Cayenne pepper

  • Hmm threesome i guys it's new thing to try

  • Have you tried a vibrating cock ring? Cheap and fun.

    Blindfold?

    Let him use a toy on you?

  • Try pegging.

  • Plan ahead of time, and anticipate it! For example, on Sunday, plan a "romp night" on Saturday and don't have Sex until then!
    Use a room you don't normally use for Sex. In fact, maybe a new dwelling! Rent a hotel room!
    Have a lovely dinner, a glass of wine, and a warm bath together.
    After that, light some candles, maybe some soft music, and make some LOVE!!!

  • Roleplay? 😕

  • new positions, new places, new techniques..

  • Add more people!!

  • Discuss your fantasies together. Try it outdoors

  • Do it in different places, different positions

  • Role play is fun. Or watching a porn and copying everything they do.

  • Do it in your in-laws or parents house whike their sleeping

  • Always!

  • Try some bondage or kinks

  • Role play dress up for your partner.

  • Think about incorporating role=play, bondage, Dominant/submission, toys, etc.

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