How can you tell the difference between a meaningles hookup and sex with emotions especially from the guy?

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Superb Opinion

  • I know sex with emotions:

    1) during a dispute and stop having sex for a week or two, you felt more than the need for a release. There is emptiness, there is feelings of broken heart, you don't feel like eating, life slow and a drag.

    2) then she calls. Or he texts. Even before answering or reading, the heart warms up.

    3) that connection sure lead to sex. A made-out sex. POWER!!

    4) You no longer care who's right or who's wrong. You just want to get intimate. Foreplay is fun. And your vagina is always wet or your penis is always in attention.

    5) After sex you'll go for food or snack. Sleeping is not the way you want it to end.

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    These are the signs that you have sex with emotions BEFORE the dispute.

Most Helpful Guy

  • One clue if he leaves right after he is finished regardless if you are or not then he just wanted sex and could careless about your needs.
    If the guy made sure you were well satisfied, stayed after, held you, stayed the night and wants to see you again the he cares about you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Only after cause they don't catch feelings till after we leave!

    Usually we catch them first so if your thinking this then maybe he is too...

    But both of you wanted a hook up?

  • Don't sleep with them before you guys are at least friends and been on some dates.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If it's sex with no commitment you should stop reaching for emotions cause you'll most likely not find it, you want emotions, involve commitment

  • Most hook ups are meaningless. That's the idea.

  • to each person its different so you will have to figure that one out for you.. and in the end how do you feel if you are with that person does your heart tell you or does your body to the talking. or both.. give it time you will find out.

  • I've never had a meaningless hook up before. I never had sex with a woman that I didn't have feelings for

  • He doesn't ghost you right away.

  • Usually a Guy would try to initiate Sex for a Meaningless Hookup, But a Guy who wants to have Sex with Emotions probably won't even mention it.

  • Is that a thing? Red flags?

  • Sex is sex, it is the rest of the relationship that is different

  • May be a bit more comfort nothing more than i feel, sex is sex.

  • Do you only get calls at night

  • Well I suppose you could try to develop some sort of algorithum based on thrusts per minute or the ass to mouth ratio but and I realise this might seem radical even ridiculous but you could try having a conversation with them.