How come chubby girls have so much more sex partners?

I know it's not that black and white, but I do notice this trend. I have a very large friends group and always talk very open to my friends about sex. There are quite a lot of girls that are cute but just have a little more wait and they seem to rack up really high numbers of sex partners (with high I mean from about 50 to over a 100). Has anyone noticed this?
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  • I'm fat and I never noticed this trend in my own circles, or rather, a lot of my thin friends also have higher body counts so it never sticks out to me if overweight friends have the same or higher. I am wondering if this is more "shock that fat girls are getting laid as much" as many people are surprised by the fact that we have normal sex lives. Also look at any other factors like beliefs difference between the women in your group or even attractiveness differences beyond weight. I'm way bigger than some of my friends, but still read as much more attractive (specifically sexy) because of my face, hair, skin, boobs, overall look.

    It's really easy to get laid as a woman, and you can do it however much you want to with the hottest guys. I'm beyond chubby, I'm fat and I have only slept with really cute/hot guys in my life. Most of the guys who try to talk to me (in person) are pretty good looking by a conventional standard, etc. Whenever I want to fuck around, it's just really easy. And I really like sex - its fun and I love to please and be pleased. But my body count is pretty low because I didn't want my insecurities to be solved through sex when I was really young and then when I was more comfortable with myself, I had a period where I was just super anxious about STDs.

    Having said that, it is true that not all of the "hot" guys I've been with would want to be seen publicly with a bigger girlfriend. A lot of guys are terrified of being seen dating with a fat girlfriend because they don't want to be judged, but love sleeping with and looking at chubby or fat women. Literally my life (or would be, if I slept with all the guys who try it). So if that's what your friends encounter, could be part of it. But the guys I actually date are cute too. Still, the hottest men are known to be more likely to be fuck boys and sometimes you just want the built, 6'4, gorgeous dude in your bed.

    Another thing is that a lot of plus size women have had to work on being comfortable with themselves and building up self esteem. A lot of my thin friends still have issues with body insecurity compared to me and some of my other plus size friends. I had to be intentional about learning to accept myself. It could be that your fat friends are more confident in their bodies and comfortable with themselves, so have more sex outside of relationships. OR could be the opposite, it depends on who your friends are. Maybe they had phases when they were younger where they slept with a lot of guys for that validation after being teased for being fat and they wanted to feel hot. Or because they partied a lot and it came with the lifestyle - that could be another reason. Also, some men think fat girls are easier, however untrue that is for many of us. So maybe that played a role. Could be many reasons for the specific women in your friend group.

    But if your friends are just "chubby," they might be read as hotter. If she doesn't have that much stomach, but has the chubby breasts and butt, on top of being pretty, etc. then this is a very popular look with guys.

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  • First, chubby girls have great breasts that they show off on apps and get guys horny. I love boobs and yeah I have done my fair share of chubby girls myself.

    Second, chubby girls tend to be better people. They are less stuck up than the hot chics. They are less intimindating. And some of them work so hard to try to keep a guy that they are better in bed. They are more passionate and willing to work harder to please. They may be less attractive but have great head game or can grind and ride.

    Third, women who are chubby are more likely to view sex as a bargaining tool to get guys attracted to them. They are more likely to put out or have sex with a guy they think is really hot out of fear that a guy will move on to a different gal on a dating app. It is true. A lot of guys who are athletic and muscular really won't waste their time on a fat woman unless she is putting out. Its the cold hard truth.

    Fourth, a lot of chubby women are not in dating relationships with their sex partners. A lot of chubby women out there are fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Because guys are emberrassed to date them in public they can't lock a man down. Skinny women or women who are physically fit are more likely to jump from relationship to relationship which lowers their body count.

    This is the blunt truth but I want to be that guy who keeps it real.

    In my experience sex with chubby women can be just as good if not better than sex with some high maintenance skinny gal. Its a different type of orgasm. With a fat or uanattractive gal the orgasm is based on the physical sensations and the quality of the sex. But with some of the other girls the orgasm is based on attraction to their body, romantic affection, love, visual lust. It is less about how she is stroking your penis and more about their entirety of how hot the woman is and your loving affection for her.

    • "Fourth, a lot of chubby women are not in dating relationships with their sex partners. A lot of chubby women out there are fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Because guys are emberrassed to date them in public they can't lock a man down. Skinny women or women who are physically fit are more likely to jump from relationship to relationship which lowers their body count." This is probably the most acurate discription as far as I've learned from talking to my chubbier friends and some male friends that have been with a lot of girls.

    • I speak the harsh truth.

  • Well most guys are pussy's and tend to go for the easiest way out to fuck. Naturally attractive women get hit on less, and they think they're not attractive, in reality most men tend to get so nervous they just never ending up talking to her, these type of men think they're not good enough wether its money, job, looks etc.

    For the chubby girl, guys that hit on her already know they are good enough and justify it saying that they are better looking than her so she will be happy with him.

    These type of men are dime a dozen, validation seeking men.

    *not saying all men do this, there are some men that genuinely prefer chubby girls.

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  • Chubby no. Curvy absolutely!!

  • 50 to 100? Not to that extent- but then, I'm not asking, so it may still be the case. And I have seen the same general pattern. My guess would be that it's due to a combination of being seen as more approachable, and having lower standards, both deriving from feeling/being seen as less attractive. If you know you're not going to get the hottest guy with the highest standards, you might as well have some fun with the others who're more laid back, no? And with unwanted pregnancies and STDs more preventable than ever, there's correspondingly less risk, and it adds up quickly.

  • A 100 is a lot of partners.

    quite possibly these girls are just more happy with their bodies and with life in general.

    they are not spending time looking for perfection to match their perfection, simply going fuck it, let’s live this life we only get one go at it.

  • Yes I have noticed this and the reason is no one wants to f*** the skinny girl because it hurts bouncing off for bones and no one likes a fat girl because you just bounce all over the place that's why it's the chubby girls the most

  • I also noticed that

  • Maybe they have low standards.

  • I think guys are probably just more confident about approaching them..

    • My skinny friends still get approached constantly, as much or even more than my chubbier friends.

    • Could just be an aura or energy thing then 🤷🏻‍♂️

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  • guys like girls with curves, not stick figures xD everyone knows that.

  • I actually don't have or want

  • maybe they are more open minded or not as picky or maybe they are less judgmental. can't really say without actually meeting your friends or not knowing anything about them

  • I think it's kinda true because some men are chubby chasers and I think the chubby girls get more sex because they feel they should have sex with any guy because of her weight and want to feel sexy. Also but some of those numbers seem over exaggerated because most chubby girls I met only like sucking dick.

    • It's true I guess that they might look for validation through sex. Haha and yes quite a few of them are pretty well known for being generous on the bj's XD

    • I chase chubby girls only for friends with benefits or fuck buddy. She will not be my girlfriend. I am a. Athletically fit guy. I have standards now. I dated a chubby woman for 2 years. I got so many dirty looks. Women looked at me with less value as a man.

  • Not me!

  • Non sense.

  • I very much doubt that

  • Because they are less prudent. Chubby girs just know what they wabt and take it and not waiting on guys to make the first move

  • Statistics suggest women deemed somewhat attractive have less lifetime sexual partners then those deemed very attractive. The opposite holds true for me.

  • I once had a boss whose theory was that he liked really big girls because everything that they get in their hands, goes into their mouths!

  • They're easier because they feel insecure and want validation.
    Their standards are lower. They may fuck more guys, but they're probably not hot guys.

  • Some of them are desirable

    • I know they are desirable, so are skinny girls who look cute. But why do the chubby girls more often have a really high sex partner count

    • Fat = Fertility Male brains register fat/Plump girls as desirable because they are viewed as more fertile. Big round full breasts. Big bubblebutt ass