How come guys cum so quick?

Just about every guy I been out with since high school cums in only few minutes, why? I am starting to not like sex since so fast. One guy cum in like under couple minutes.
How come guys cum so quick?
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  • Not paying long can have multiple causes. Like if they're new to sex (not masturbating), have never had consistent sex to learn to build up stamina, or just haven't had sex in a long time. Usually when masturbating, guys just want to cum and get it over with so they go fast. Then when they finally have sex with a woman their body is trained to cum fast even if they don't want to. It can also just be the sensitivity of their dick.

    One trick to try is to get the first load out of the way early, with a hand job or something. Then while they reset, have some more foreplay, maybe more focused on you this time, then when it gets to the main event, drive he's already cum once he'll usually last longer.

  • You must have a tight wet pussy. That helps guys cum fast.

    • I don't know but still happening

  • Inexperience, lack of sex (regular), anxiety, young, new partner, just overly "excited", too much in his head and not relaxed enough (often improves over time the more you have sex together).

  • Because that's how fast men cum on average if they're not slowing down AND having practice lasting longer

  • They are probably too excited, especially if it's their first time with you. Have them eat or finger you until you are getting relatively close to cumming before starting intercourse. Don't perform any foreplay on them other than getting them hard (if they're not already). If you are tight use some lube to help them last longer. If they get close to cumming too soon, have pull out to take a short break during which time have them eat you. If they still cum too soon, try some desensitizing lube on their dicks.

  • Women don't cum nearly as fast. Invite ine of your girlfriends over. They'll be able to last a lot longer with you.

  • Maby there not use to your pussy? I usually masterbate for hours until i cum.