Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How come if a guy fucks a lot of girls, it makes him more desirable, yet when a girl fucks a lot of guys it's a turnoff?
Anonymous
I'm not talking about relationship material, just pure sexually. But how come it's the opposite for guys and girls? Back in high school, there was this bully, big ugly fella, who fucked a girl. Knowing he did that apparently turned a lot of girls on, since about 7 other classmates (including me) suddenly thought he was nice and gave our virginity to him. Another example, at my cousin's wedding, there was this guy, a colleague/friend of the groom, who had this group of guys laughing, high fiving him while a picture of the bride and bridesmaids was taken. I thought he was an asshole when he first winked at me, but then I asked why he and his friends were laughing. Apparently he fucked all 6 bridesmaids in the past year and the bride a couple days before the wedding (yes it actually happend and I know that's pretty fucked up). I hated him but I just couldn't ignore that knowing that turned me on big time. At the party, suddenly all the girls were trying to talk to him, and yes, I got a little too drunk and let him into my hotelroom that night. I of course felt ashamed and hoped no one found out. Too bad the entire hotel heard us. So how come this turns me on? Is it something instinctive? Or like the forbidden fruit kinda thing? Because you know it's dangerous and "naughty"?
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11 32its a man's world. guys call the shots cos we are dominant
Because the idea of several other guys' ducks being in anything you're currently putting your dick in is a turn off.
That's the only reason I can think of.
Does it?
A guy that is too sexually active is a turn off for me and it's a deal breaker.
Girls who do a lot of guys tend to act a certain way.
So do guys and it's also a turn off
That's just the way it is.
Its just one of those double standards
Same reason a woman can be a stay at home wife and no one bats an eye but if a man is a stay at home husband he's not a "man"
(without reading all that text)
stupid double standards
I have always found girls that were not sexually active a turn off to be honest. I find girls who do get laid much more attractive than those who never do, or never want to.
but lets say a girl who had 6 partners, or a girl who had 40. What would you think is most attractive?
I honestly dont care. Its a bit shallow i think to measure a girls attractiveness by her past sex partners.
That's Ironic coming from you, since you just measured a girls attractiveness by her past sex partners in your original post.
@SuperAnonymouz sexually active can be masturbation too.
bcoz of the stereotype-that expirianced male -is good and turn on and not exprianced-a looser...
though, i am not agree on it
Well according to my girlfriend and her friends, guys who sleep around are also a turnoff...
Who says it would make him more desirable?
Because girls think guys who are experienced are better than inexperienced guys
I dont think that way if a lady fucks many its her choice, no one to judge her.
Honestly, to me it doesn't. I don't like men who have slept with many chicks. That is a huge turn off to me.
Because it's easy for women to get sex, so when they have it a lot it's not special. In fact it's pretty revolting since it ruins that woman for marriage. It's more difficult for the average man to get laid so when one gets laid a lot he must be high quality.
I don't know, my girlfriend had sex before me and I found it to be a turn on. I wasn't even jealous that someone had sex with her before I did.
That's up to girls. Don't fall for guys like that and "stud shaming" might be a thing. Personally, I think people in general with a lot of partners is a turn off.