How come more guys I meet up with expect to go bare during sex?

I noticed guys I gone out with the past couple months did not want to use a condom and wanted to go bare for sex. One guy said he always goes bare and girls never asked him for condom. I let them go bare but then they all expected to finish inside too. I thought it was strange but I don't know if it is only me or what.
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  • These guys are fucking idiots. I go bare a lot these days but I had a VASECTOMY five years ago. It blows my mind how many babes don't ask me to wear a condom. Yeah I know STDs, not too worried about them because all but two there are meds for. But any guy or. girl who isn't bagging it and doesn't have a vasectomy or IUD is playing russian roulette. The pill fails, condoms break. Before vasectomy my golden rule was two forms of birth control, I have a condom and I hope she has the pill/IUD etc. Much safer w the vasectomy and it still blows my mind how many girls don't even ask if I have anything.

    • Sounds like girls let them like they told me but then if they go bare then it is expected that they finish inside I guess.

    • Even if they don't finish inside I've met many many single moms. and dad's that got prego from pull out. Pre cum is not fictional.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Every girlfriend I ever had was on the pill.

    Using a condom really diminishes the experience. Neither person gets to feel the skin sliding against skin. The guy can't feel the juiciness. All he feels is warm embrace.

    Imagine petting a soft kitten while wearing surgical gloves. How much would you feel?

    Also, some girls experience irritation and other problems due to latex sensitivity/allergy.

    My recommendation is, get on the pill or some other form of birth control and start experiencing real sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah few guys want to wear condoms. The last couple of guys I hooked up with didn’t want to use them either and ended up pulling out instead. That always makes me nervous though.

  • Definitely becoming more common. They all think we are on birth control

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  • They just try to ask for it to see if they can get away with it because it feels better, no matter how stupid going bare is. If you don't feel comfortable with it or just don't want it, you don't have to go along with. You shouldn't go along with it.

    • You think they just saying it so I don't know I feel used now. I am ok with bare since on birth control but guys expecting to and then to cum in me like it is normal kinda is weird I thought

    • if you tell them you're on birth control, they don't see why they shouldn't finish inside. there are other risks to going bare than pregnancy, especially with new people

    • I know thats why I kinda said yes but I thought they would still pull out or ask but they just stayed in until they finished. My best friend said happening to her too so I don't know

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  • Because sex it more enjoyable that way, but they want to finish inside? it's little too far.

  • And you're ok Asker with potentially catching std's/hiv?

    It"s ok of course if you're on bc and are having cmbare penis-vagina sex with a regular sexual partner you know and trust, but if you're letting hook up/ons guys enter you bare then you're taking big sexual health risks

  • Maybe because they hate condoms, I know I do.

  • It sounds like these guys are players. It's your body. If you want them to wear a condom just tell them. If they complain they can find another girl.

  • That's unfortunately common. A lot of guys care more about feeling bare skin then the dangers of having sex with someone new.

    • Ok I was wondering since they all said about same thing like it is normal to go bare and it was me that was not normal I don't know

  • Just an excuse for them to get as much pleasure from using your body as possible.
    Simple...
    They don't care what happens.

  • remember, the point of sex, is to procreate, right?

    humans are one of the only organisms in the world, that have sex, for fun

    those of us who do, anyway

  • Condoms suck. It is a lot better without it...

  • Condons are more safe sex, bare increase the possibility of pregnancy. If the demand bare hand them a fake pussy and say go after that. Smiles

  • thats not safe and specially if they finish inside you

  • What the heck. That's so risky... infection, pregnancy etc.

  • If I am going raw I cum inside the girl. Girls know that goes with guy going raw.