How come people don't say anything to boys about sleeping around like they do girls?

[Anonymous]

[FunkyMonkee]

Because it's seen as a very manly thing to fuck around as much as possible!! There's also no physical consequences for putting your cum up her pussy! But, for girls, it's like she was just used and is no longer any good. She's become tainted, used goods, not worth as much as she was as a virgin. I guess it's kinda like of a guy comes into a rag, he doesn't usually hang onto it to cum again, later, he throws it away. Sad state of mentality, I know! It SHOULDN'T be that way. Girls love to fuck a lot, too and that shouldn't be a stigma to them but, I think it's very largely based around religion that they ARE!

[Avt9560]

I think it's harmful to the sex life of girls and also guys, and a stupidly remainder of older times. In more traditional and religious societies it's more exaggerated so the disadvantages are more obvious: guys don't marry a girl unless she is a virgin. And they don't have this standard for guys which makes them feel superior. But guess what? For the exact same reason, girls avoid sleeping around so they can get married. Then guys complain about girls not being open minded or fun or whatever. Very short sighted.

[TheMVPofGaG]

Ahhh, double standards. Guys with a body count 10x mine will still call me and other girls "sluts", meanwhile every guy ik is getting high-fived left and right.

[TheMVPofGaG]

^ the disagreements from the incels that are mad 🥺

[MCheetah]

No. It has to do with effort and skill. It requires no effort or skill for women to get laid, and a LOT of effort and skill, both game and gymwork, for a man to get laid (without paying for it).

[laurieluvsit]

Boys can't get pregnant and girls can.

Yes, boys are told not to get girls pregnant, but do they listen?

... maybe not so much.

[Asker]

That is just ignorant when people think they don't have responsibility because they can't get pregnant.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Double standards.

[DizzyDesii]

We do but we get bashed for callin out hoes of all sorts on their hoeshit 🤣 I really dgaf if a person wanna be a hoe. But if he's tryna get with me, I’ma tell him I’m not bout his lifestyle

[ChrisMaster69]

Mainly as it’s a ‘guy’ thing to do.

At times guys do comment on other guys fucking around too much.

it’s hypocrisy really.

[MCheetah]

Because it's 100x harder for any guy to get laid than it is any girl. It's not nearly the same amount of effort. That doesn't mean I condone men being man-sluts, but it's effortless for 99% of women to get laid, while only 1-5% of non-famous/non-rich men are attractive ir skilled enough to get laid several times in a month. It's like saying why don't waitresses and neurosurgeons get paid the same amount of money and then whining about there being a gender wage gap on that alone. Even honest women will tell you it's far easier for women to get laid than men.

[Asker]

That is a lie from the pit of hell.

[MCheetah]

Sure. Reality is a lie to those in denial of the flat hard truth.

[Asker]

It is a lie from the pit of hell that men can't get laid that much if that was true they wouldn't be dropping women who sleep with them too soon.

[MCheetah]

(Most) men who aren't famous or rich, I said.

[Asker]

Losers and broke guys can get sex too you're just lying to me. Because I have seen those type of guys with children. It takes both a man and a woman to make a baby it isn't a one way street.

[MCheetah]

Literally only a naïve woman or a troll would ever say this.

[Asker]

I'm not naive I'm telling you what I know y'all just butt hurt because the woman y'all wanted dog you all out so you find a a woman you all don't like so much and use her. Anybody can have sex no matter your status or looks.

[IMuser]

Stakes are higher for a woman than a man?

If protection was not invented, each time you have sex, you would have a 50% or higher chance of getting pregnant. It would make no difference to a man (only except STD/STI)

[Asker]

So you are saying even if he got a bunch of women pregnant he can say that he isn't the daddy.

[IMuser]

To curb the possibility of such a situation, the concept of virgin brides and marriage was made. If the girls were adamant on being a virgin till marriage, the men would not get any sex. To get sex, they would get married and thus, both the men and women would get a safe spot for sexual pleasure. For a guy to get married, he would have had to have some qualifications (settled, resourceful, respect in society etc) and thus, marriage became an important milestone in the life of a man

[Asker]

Still not guaranteed that he will marry you usually they mess with you when they don't like you just to make himself feel better on how he feels about getting rejected by the girl he really wanted.

[Berethor]

Because girls are the gate keepers of sex, not the other way around.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SlutShaming

[Asker]

That isn't solving any problems.

[Berethor]

If there is no girls who act like sluts around then more guys would be waiting until marriage.

en.wiktionary.org/.../why_buy_the_cow_when_you_can_get_the_milk_for_free

[Asker]

Men are going to go sleep with another woman anyway no matter if she holds out or not. That is just an excuse so men can do what they want to do. Not fooling me men sleep around with women they don't even like it is about their pleasure. Still wouldn't get married either if we did good out all that stuff is is lies and excuses to get what they want.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Because men and women are different

[Asker]

That isn't an excuse that isn't solving any problems.

[Dragonstarterplus]

What?

[HighValue]

Girls encourage it by not wanting to date less or inexperienced boys/men. They often prefer men that have slept around and are more experienced.

Anybody that has casual sex, (men or women) are not as good of a potential long term relationship partner. their morals and attachment style are different.

[megabamse]

Because humans are idiots

[TheSpaceGnome]

People do though.

[AndrésC64]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/h6UAtYlo7Io

Jim Jefferies - Sluts vs Studs

[joeldalton]

Because if you own a key that can open many locks, it’s a master key. If you have a lock that can be opened by any key, it’s a shitty lock.

[Asker]

That is why I don't date men because you are saying that a man can be sleeping around behind your back in the relationship but you can't sleep with him because he will think that you are a slut.

[joeldalton]

Cool story, bro.

[Asker]

What you said was just another excuse I wish I can have excuses like you men do for why I can choose wrong.

[joeldalton]

You’re babbling, now.

[Asker]

No because usually men only want is sex not every guy that walks by has good intentions it doesn't mean that every guy likes me.

[joeldalton]

Well yeah, I’m sure not every guy likes you.

[jahaims]

I view them to be the same

[ihatemylife123]

well girls dont have a problem with it i guess or they would voice it. and i think girls sleep around more because its easier for them to get sex. they have a bunch of guys chasing them and they have makeup to make themsleves appear more attractive so that means even ugly girls can get laid.

I don't know do girls have a lot of guys chasing them? some girls answer me.

[Godsvengeance]

Because, among other things, men can't get pregnant and are less likely (but far from unlikely) to get STDs. That all said, slutty men do catch shit too, just not as much.

[Asker]

That is a lame excuse to say that they aren't the daddy if they pregnant a bunch of girls. That is a deadbeat and that is sorriness.

[Asker]

It doesn't look good on the kids and creates the same patterns because they think it is normal.

[Godsvengeance]

I didn't say I agreed, I just told you the groupthink behind the trend you have noticed

[SignedAutographs]

Oh they do you just aren't hearing it for some reason

[BlackBull6]

Your question should be the other way around. Why do people care so much when women sleep around?

[MCheetah]

Because STD's, pregnancies, and divorces, dude. And the same can happen with men too, but how many men get laid as often as women can?

[Anonymous]

I guess because girls are kept to a higher standard

[Anonymous]

Women are gatekeepers. They decide who and when and it is much easier for women to have sex whenever they want so when they do it promiscuously, they're called out for it. Incidentally, men who do are manwhores too. Women are different than men too.

[Asker]

An excuses because it isn't solving any problems when men can do what they want to do.

[Opinion Owner]

The truth is not "excuses". Women do decide, so the burden of modesty and responsibility is higher on them

[Asker]

Still an excuse so a man don't have to take responsibility for it when he made the choice too. They are both adults why does a woman have to be an adult but a man can be a child. It doesn't make any sense it sounds dumb.

[Opinion Owner]

I just told you why women are judged more harshly. You just don't want to accept it.

[Asker]

It is a dumb excuse women aren't the only ones who lose value for having sex men do too. Men hold as much value as do a woman.

[Opinion Owner]

Women DECIDE. Men get what they can when they can, which is why even a manwhore is not judged as harshly. A woman can just show up somewhere and leave getting laid, a guy has to be so many things first and work hard just for the chance to do that. It's why when a woman is promiscuous, it's easy for her to be so she's judged more harshly. Also, the bigger burden is on her because she decides.

[Asker]

It is not easier for a woman to get laid than a man men are capable of sleeping around as much as they want to too. That is why excuses that stupid ass society made up. Men be wanting them a prostitute they really want sex for free. They is why they lie so they don't have to pay for it.

[Opinion Owner]

If a woman wants sex RIGHT NOW, she can go out to any bar or club and in less than 5 minutes, walk out with a willing participant. Men have to put on a show and win a woman over for even a chance. It's why prostitution exists in the first place. Women have something men want and is difficult to get for free. Almost no woman would pay a man for sex. There's so many men willing for free, but way less women willing to have random sex for free with any guy. It's all supply vs demand. Women have the supply and men are the demand when it comes to sex.

[Asker]

Women have sex for love and men have sex because they like it. Men have sex and don't even like the woman.

[Opinion Owner]

Some men have sex without love just like some women too. Most men and women are probably looking for intimacy, but settle for sex. It's just about the availability vs the demand. Women like sex but usually need emotional attachment for it, men usually get emotional attachment with sex and have a much higher sex drive, so the demand for sex is high from men, while women are more reluctant, hence the disparity and the reason why it's so much easier for women to obtain sex than it is for men.

[Asker]

Men know what they are doing is wrong they just do wrong because they aren held accountable for it. Usually it be the man's fault majority of the time but like I said men are brought out like they don't know any better but when a woman does stupid stuff than she is an adult.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to GAG.