Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I'm a virgin, but I think I would really enjoy giving bjs. Its one of the things I fantisize about when I'm turned on. On g@g I have noticed that some men don't enjoy deeothroating, or a bj in general.
Now I'm not saying I like the idea of being face fucked, but I do like the idea of staying in control and deepthroating at my own will and control. Apparently some of you guys out there really don't enjoy this, why not? I know "Not all men are the same", what I'm asking is to those men who don't enjoy it- why?
How come some men don't enjoy a bj?
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7 49I enjoy a bj especially if it happens when I’m not ready for it I tend to be very spontaneous as well going down on a woman
Maybe they have a preference or something that make them enjoy a particular style of bj.
I like it, though no teeth preferred lol 😋
Usually those guys that don't enjoy it make the case that their partners don't give good head
To much teeth.
For me, it is partly hygiene issues. I don't like her saliva around my member. Likewise, I would not do oral on a girl: fluid mixing again.
I had an inexperienced girl (her first bj), and did not enjoy it. I think part of the issue was with me: I was not 'mentally ready' and not properly aroused.
I don't like for her to be "below" me: I feel it is demeaning for a lady to deliver bj. I'm uncomfortable with that.
I guess, I would not mind trying again, in a proper environment, under proper conditions.
I don't enjoy it and mainly because I like being in control. I don't know what to do when someone is bobbing up and down on my dick. It doesn't feel as good as penetrative sex. It gets messy since there's too much saliva. It feels weird kissing her on the lips afterwards.
In my experience like 1 in 5 girls is actually good at it and it feels amazing. And the other 4 think they're good at it but it's boring as fuck.
Did the girl that was at it do something different to the other girls? What techniques did she use?
I'm no dick sucking expert xD I have no idea what she was doing but she definitely knew what she was doing
OK fair enough
You must date some gay-ass men. I can't imagine a man not liking his cock going down a hot girls throat.
yeah... I made quite clear i was talking about men on g@g...
still a virgin, but I can't think of a single reason why a man wouldn't enjoy a bj from a woman they find attractive, other than skill maybe, of course.
Some men expect a lot for the first time, but end up disappointed
That's their problem, not yours.
I don't know, maybe bad experiences so they're traumatized or they're just weirdos.
you're a virgin
and you're talking about how guys don't enjoy bj's
typical
Because the sounds y'all make are disgusting but also funny
Those sounds a turn on lol
*are a
I hate the sound of gagging/choking
A normal bj sound doesn't quite sound like that
I'm referring to deepthroating and that degrading thing
Yeah I'm not too into that myself. It does turn me on when guys get so into it that they start to take control and move with you while you're giving a bj, but I'm really not into the brutal stuff
Thats like asking why some women dont cum from penetration.
Could be all kimds of reasons
yeah... and I'm asking
So it could be the skillset of the partner, could be the sensitivity of his dick (due to chemical reactions sucks as food or drugs), could be psychological also. Everyone has psychological barriers in place that allow them to experience pleasure, but not unlimited pleasure. Could be over stimulation. Could also be environment, mood, temperature
What do you mean by over stimulation and the sensitivity?
it typically happens from foreplay or teasing that lasts too long
Maybe their chicks got braces.
Probably the same reason some women don’t enjoy receiving oral sex. It’s just some people have different preferences. That’s part of the fun of getting to know potential partners is figuring out how your sexual preferences line up and where they don’t. There are plenty of men (me included) that enjoy reviving oral sex when it is good. These are important conversations to have with people as you get to know them and are thinking about dating them.
That is very true
For sure! 😊 you mentioned you don’t want to be face fucked... have you tried it?
No I haven't but it just doesn't seem like my thing. I might try it one-day if I trust the guy enough
I'm too big to be deep throated and don't get much similar from a bj in general. I still enjoy them as foreplay, but not as a finish.
I honestly don't know I just know I was never into it my only guess is because I had a lot of sex before I finally get a blow job and it just seems like water down sex
water down sex 😂 for some reason that makes sense.
Thanks I notice most guys that care about it got blow jobs first and didn't get sex until sometime later
God damn you have a great fantasy... the only bad bj is a toothy one
Because not many are actually good at it.
Because Penis is created by God to insert in vagina not mouth and instinctively they prefer to insert their penis in vagina rather than mouth.
I mean thats true, but a lot of things we do for foreplay are enjoyable, that don't involve penetration
Correct. Blowjob causes the guy to cum VERY faster when he is going to have penetrative sex with you. for example if you give a guy bj for 5 minutes he would cum less than one minute after penetration so most guys prefer to pump penis at least 5 minutes rather than one minute. Could I answer your Q?
yeah that's a good answer. Makes sense