How come The more and more a man is dominating or controlling or penetrating (mentally/emotionally), the more I like it?

[Anonymous]

And get Attached to him?

[PositiveFlight]

You spelled out many of the natural mental differences in general between a man and woman. It’s right and good when it’s healthy and done without abusing it. A man is naturally supposed to want to protect a woman and lead his family. But it’s supposed to be for the good. Not as a commander or abusive. Same for sex. A woman wants a man to lead because she wants to feel taken care of emotionally, physically, etc. when she opens herself and body up, and becomes vulnerable. So again, the man shouldn’t take advantage of that. He should love her and do everything to make her comfortable, cherished, naturally pleasured, and feel safe. As a man, I love my role and responsibility to take care of and love a woman this way. Im glad you see it naturally from your point of view as a woman. I see these differences in a healthy light and I don’t take advantage or go on a power trip as somehow being superior. I believe in traditional gender roles. And I believe in being honorable and respectful toward womanhood.

[Asker]

Cool 😊

[Lliam]

I think a lot of women are turned on by feeling small and helpless during sex. They love being pushed to their limit by a man who is big, strong and masculine. They like being controlled, positioned, lifted, bounced, and pinned, having their hair pulled, their arms, legs, hips, waist, boobs, neck and shoulders gripped to hold them in place, and having their ass slapped while being drilled, pounded, plundered, used and savored. They like being fucked hard by a man who is driven wild with desire.

It makes a woman feel empowered to take whatever a man dishes out. It makes her a bad ass; a sexual athlete.

[Asker]

Damn. Ok. I don’t really want rough stuff.

[Asker]

Did you get it from porn? Just curious

[Lliam]

No. Porn wasn't available. I wasn't talking about rough stuff like pain, degradation, spitting, BDSM, or anything like that. I don't like the idea of choking a girl. I wouldn't do anything to hurt a girl. I would never do anything that she didn't want. The only thing I would slap would be her bottom, but not any harder than she liked. I'm just talking about normal, energetic sex once we are both fully aroused. For women, the kind of sex I described feels like being on a thrill ride at an amusement park. It's also not dissimilar to the way women love being spun, lifted and tossed around when dancing with a skilled partner whom they trust, like in the movie Dirty Dancing. When I described things in my original comment, I neglected to mention how my girlfriends fucked back urgently and enthusiastically. And during cowgirl they could take control and do what got them off. Does that make sense?

[Asker]

Hmm yeah.

[SnowedIn]

Because that's your preference.

[Fireguy17]

You like domineering men.
Just a question, but was your father like that growing up?
If so that might just be where you got it from.

[Asker]

I was scared of him

[Lliam]

I assume she was referring to sex.

[Asker]

@Lliam it was sex and everything else

[Asker]

I really wasn’t talking about sex though

[Fireguy17]

so to you that seems normal to you. If someone doesn't act like that then the relationship just doesn't seem right. If you would like to break the cycle, it is quite possible to do so, but you would need to see a professional about it. That is way above GAG.

[Asker]

I wish I could talk about it but yeah I guess only a therapist cares

[mathew1543]

You love humiliation. Does it turn you on too? I've come across few people who like it too

[Asker]

Does it turn you on

[mathew1543]

That wasn't the question lol

[Asker]

Wel yeah I love being owned and I don't know I guess humiliated lol

[mathew1543]

Wanna dm? I want to know more

[Asker]

Ok sure

[mathew1543]

Dm me

[riverrat3]

We like what we like

[riverrat3]

Would you dm me

[Asker]

Yes ;