How come when a guy can’t get his penis inside me without pain he gives up and says it work work. Whereas I’m willing keep trying?

It’s happened about 7 or 8 times with casual hook ups (over the past 5 years) they are like it’s not gonna work, I can’t get it in, I’m being pushed out. And won’t do it. And if I ask they might try once or twice but ultimately end up just asking me for oral or leaving it all together. Or get annoyed me. Why so lazy or is it cause they don’t wanna hurt me or they don’t like me enough to be patient.

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  • I find it's really important to ensure a girl is especially aroused through nice foreplay then to insert my hardness into her caringly & patiently - when all of my 'mushroom' head is inside her I hold still awhile to check it feels comfortable for her, then I push firmly but gently, inch by inch till it's all the way in, then hold still again before thrusting so I can make certain it feels physically and sexually comfortable for her

    Sorry for you that the guys you've been with were so impatient, and uncaring, they seem so be self-entitled and only concerned about their own pleasure/satisfaction and clearly have ver poor sexual skills !

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  • Well is it because you're too dry or too tight? Dry is painful for us too, so keep some water based lube handy. If it's too tight, going slow they should be able to get in with enough lube unless they're halfway soft or something. Like someone else said though, if it's happening with one guy it's him, if it's happening a lot the common denominator is you, and I'd go to an OBGYN to get looked at because there are some potential medical avenues that should be explored and ruled out. Do you have problems masturbating with similar sized toys?

Most Helpful Girl

  • You sure he’s not trying to put it in your pee hole?

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  • As a guy who never had sex, this is interesting! I never knew a woman could be tight that a guy couldn't get it in her.

  • It's because you are hooking up with fuck boys and your mouth may say yes but your vagina says no. You are obviously not at ease around these "casual hookups", so stop trying to be a skeezer and get a boyfriend. Spend some time around them and let your guard down before fucking them.

    • lmaooo

  • They need to. use lube.

  • Have you tried playing with for a while? Also his balls? He should respond.

  • It isn't exactly hard work to push your pelvis forward, so I reckon they're probably thinking more about not hurting you or that you're not into it enough.

  • You might have a physical condition where you are really too tight to allow for penetration. Happens with one guy, it's on him. Happens with all the guys, then I really think you should see a doctor

  • That means your tight and your not wet enough. If you was wet it would slide right in

  • Its most funny i heard so far, kick him out and be with a guy who knows how to do it correctly.

  • Maybe the condom gets too slippery

  • What size dick are you talking about here?

  • WTF? Are they fully hard? Like ROCK hard?

  • Problem is a legal one, if they force it then legally get considered as a rapist and no one other than a rapist wants that