How come when my friend sexually harassed me no on cared?

[Vinnie88]

She came up behind me and grabbed my private area and she used to grab my ass whenever we hugged and I kept asking her to stop but she wouldn't.

[Anoniemus]

I really hate that this happens to men because if you reveal that you are harassed, do you know what happens?

You're shunned.
You're told that you should have enjoyed it. Men will flock and say "I wish it was done to me"... and they don't think of the men who DON'T WANT IT.
You're considered weak.

There are more reasons. I would have told the girl to not ever touch you that way again and call the cops. This is definitely one aspect of society that needs to change... and it doesn't help when men are discouraging other men by telling them that they should have liked it.

[Vinnie88]

Thank you so much!

[Anoniemus]

You're welcome!

[SpacedCharr]

Because sadly, the social narrative has made it so men aren't taken seriously when they are harassed. It's a problem, it's gross, and I wish it would stop.

Man, woman, other - no one deserves to be touched inappropriately in ways they don't want.

Report her. To a school authority if you're at school, to police if you're not.

If you've told her to stop, and she refuses, she's actively and knowingly committing assault. She needs to deal with the consequences.

[wankiam]

did you report it to anyone? i suspect you didn't so its a bit unfair if you want to join the #metoo movement

[Vinnie88]

I did report it, to the school and my parents and nothing happened

[Anoniemus]

He can join the movement. Though its about women being sexually harassed and raped not being silent anymore, men should DEFINITELY be in it. They keep silent about it more so than women because of how society punishes them for it. @Vinnie Call the police. What horrible people who didn't speak up for you.

[wankiam]

well if it seriously bothers you i suggest you write a formal letter of complaint aimed at you school to the local education authority. i know you are trying to say one law for one and a different law for another here but depending on what country you live in, its simply not true. as for your parent, not a lot you can do about that except challenge them on the point more but you might just piss em off if you do that

[wankiam]

@Anoniemus thanks for the input but i think you missed the subtext of what i was saying and im not so sure the asker is being genuine either.

[Anoniemus]

Lol. Yeah I did miss it. I literally thought he said something about metoo and that's what you were responding to. I get what you're saying though. My mistake.

[Vinnie88]

I'm being genuine. It's just hard to talk to people about it because men are supposed to like that stuff and it embarrasses me

[Nessygurl]

Because unfortunately we live in a world where a lot of people think only a woman can be sexually harassed. Most men seem to be embarrassed to speak out if it happens to them.

[Shamalien]

Slap her

[Anonymous]

Shame why didn't you tell your mommy a girly grabbed your wiener, start being a man, grab her back... next time don't cry man up and set boundaries, or simply grab her put your hand down her crotch