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How common is it, in reality, for a man to only desire to have sex if he's emotionally connected?
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4 33That's not very common at all
Is that what your looking for
For sure. I would even say deeper than that. But again I was never the one night stand or let's just have fun type of a girl. So I don't know.
I'm impressed
lol there are many girls who don't. But thank you 🌹
Where are they cause I haven't met them
😅😅 You made me smile there. I guess I can only say you will. who knows tho So do you need to have an emotional connection to make love or you think these two functions are not necessary the same?
Absolutely I do I don't just hook up
I’m ready for sex whenever she is horny!
Very. Not all men can differentiate between lust and love
you are the only one giving hat response l. interesting.
I would still be turned on by a girl that i don't have an emotional connection with but i wouldn't have sex with her. I want to have sex with a girl i already feel close to.
Difficult to know - but I think not particularly common.
I don't care about me that much at all I completely forget that I'm supposed to have pleasure too. I just get obsessed with seing her love smile see it in the eyes, if that's what you mean?
And I don't met lady's I don't feel a connection with I don't think it's something that works if I have to try and make feelings and a connection to her it should just happen on its own maybe, if not no shy feels.
I get what you mean. Sounds selfless but also a connection means different things to different people I guess.
Yes it does but I can just wait and hope to be told there a mutual connection, and never really do anything. Most lady's think I'm never interested in meting as I never ask, I want them too I don't feel right expecting women to say yes, with men being how they are.
What's emotionally connected
in the process of falling for the person or in love
Oh loves just a chemical imbalance in your brain. Time will make it pass. That's why I was confused by what you meant.
Is for me and I still like to fuck without that too
Sex is very important to men
Sex is part of emotion unless ur a hoe. But man is also connected to emotion while having sex.
I think a lot of men have this desire but it’s somehow viewed as unmanly or even gay? Yeah very strange culture. In any case I won’t have sex again until I know she’s the one forever, ain’t messin around no more
what made you change your views about sex like that?
A one night stand with no emotions whatsoever and my reflection on what I really want from a woman henceforth. It’s more than just sex, sex by itself is really a curse, emotionally, without the other components of romance
Really I was never the kind of guy to hookup but I was convinced it was the norm so I went with the flow
I honestly understand your point. I'd rather be with a man lie you in reality as I think it is more unlikely for you to cheat. So I don't think what you said is gay.
LOL I don’t think it’s gay either XD im an adult now hahaha thanks tho, any self respecting woman should prefer a man who needs that connection, because any sane man knows he does need it, we need it to it’s just easier to suppress emotions as a man
She is there for you 🌹
I mean you truly deserve it. Love is a beautiful thing
Define desire. Everyone has fantasies. You think guys don't know you women are thinking of other guys when you're f***ing us? Well it' CAN be the same thing for the guy who has been with the same women for a long time.
Very common. We men might feel horny or aroused quite often but most of us wouldn't have sex with anyone without having emotional connection with her... similar as the ladies. The difference is that ladies don't feel horny so easily and no need to masturbate or they don't even show emotional connection so easily because of fear of males.
you really think that 🤔?
Really think what? What exactly surprised you
That men are similar to the ladies on this regard but the ladies don't show emotional connection so easily