Girls, How did losing your virginity feel like?

I’m just curious to know what the first time is like since I haven’t had sex yet. Was it painful? Did you enjoy it? Were you nervous or shy to get naked for the first time in front of your partner? What was going through your mind before & after? Was it planned or just naturally happened unexpectedly? Was it a great experience or horrible? I’d like details.
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  • My hymen was broken with a medical procedure a year before I had sex for the first time, so sex was not painful for me. It was incredibly awkward though. It was both of our first times and neither of us knew what we were doing, it didn’t feel very good and afterwards I felt like I’d made a mistake and that I had chosen the wrong person to lose my virginity to.


    My advice to you is be careful who you choose to lose it to. You never forget your first 🥶

    • Awww I’m so sorry to hear your first experience wasn’t great! I truly hope to save myself for marriage but I’m not going to lie, as I get older it gets harder for me simply because I’m so curious to know what it feels like since we live in such a sexualized world. But since I don’t date it’s easier for me. I just won’t have sex with a random guy but truly cannot wait to lose it.

    • I lost my virginity to a guy I had been dating for a few weeks, not just someone random. But I still regretted it. Personally I don’t understand the whole saving yourself for marriage thing. It would suck to get married and have sex for the first time to your husband or wife, only to find that their genitalia is deformed, unattractive or they’re terrible at sex. But that’s just my personal thinking on it.

    • Yes I think about that a lot. I truly am scared about being unsatisfied if I wait until marriage but it’s for religious reasons. Also how do I know if my hymen is broken or not? Is it even possible for someone my age to still have their hymen intact? I heard it can get broken from riding a bike or different activities. I don’t wanna bleed my first time.

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  • Like heaven

    • What age did you lose it?

    • I was 9