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How did you learn about masturbation?

Did someone tell you? Did you learn about it in health class? Did you read about it? Did you just figure it out? (I read about it.)

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Most Helpful Girls

  • There are many things we learn ourselves, just by natural signals, and there were no textbooks available easily to everybody (except KAMSUTRA in Indian Culture – reserved for adults only) or tuition-class for all that things. Now – in recent years there are world wide open tuition classes in large number – on internet. Most people learn almost everything from it, and they need not to take help of their friends or textbooks.

    When I was in the early stage of puberty, I was using hand shower directed down there and enjoying pressure of water feel me happy and dreaming something about that special body part. I did not know that this activity is termed “masturbation” technically. I talk about this pleasure with my friends in class / girls room, and many of them explained their different ways to enjoy such pleasure. Gossips were our basic teacher for it. We were putting our ears or guy’s talks (full of dirty words and slang) to know about their experiences. That was very very exciting activities for some of the girls. As I was spending too long time in bathroom, my mother talked to me about physiology and female body in person – when we both were home alone. She taught me about my vagina and erogenous zones, and also guided many safe techniques to have pleasure without harming internal organs, (Hymen and not getting infections). She talked about the female anatomy and what is masturbation. It was a very positive conversation and it gave me the confidence to explore my body freely. I strongly believe that she was much advanced lady in our culture and society who could understand very positively feelings of her teen-age girl. I followed her all instructions, had never penetrated anything in my body and not tried to see any guy peeing (his organ) to keep my excitements under control till marriage.

    There are several best friends in everyone’s life, parents, brother and / or sister, pet, books and God. God – Nature is a wonderful silent teacher for everything we needs to learn in our life. My neighbor guy and best friend in my class were in 6th grade, we were talking about music and boys and kissing after completing assignments and he said it was making him horny. So right there in front of me he pulled down his clothes and showed me his organ – tight and throbbing up and down. I was captivated and could not wait to get home. I was dreaming about it for the days. For guys, love happens not just once or twice, but every time their testosterone level goes high.

    Ignoring your life partner over your girl feelings is the most foolish decision of your life. I learnt it from my husband – soon after our engagement when we were investing our time in a relationship. When we were meeting behind doors, he was making some stupid things seriously (drooping his nectar in my hand or napkin). Young-age love is fiercer than the love in late twenties. We both were enjoying tingles in his penis. I was looking at it with surprise, hard, stiff and quivering. I kept watching his hard penis, enjoying the tingles. I was always fantasized at his naked body, it was looking very beautiful.

  • Friends were horny... sooo did horny things. I was not, so i found it disgusting.

Most Helpful Guys


  • I was 12! I had just read a book about puberty that my parents bought for me and I had a weird tingly sensation in my groins that I could not explain. The book mentioned that boys should stretch their foreskin to allow it to retract past the head for hygiene purposes. I laid in bed, pulled down my pants and started gently tugging down on my foreskin. Initially, it was tight and I had issues getting it to retract. After a few minutes, I started feeling a warm pleasurable sensation rushing through my groins and testicles. The pleasure only intensified and 12 year old me had absolutely no idea what was happening.
    I started stroking my foreskin up and down at an even quicker pace, and very soon, I was okay the brink of orgasm. I still remember that very first orgasm - the most explosive and intense orgasm I probably will ever experience; I made a mess everywhere and there was cum all over the place. I laid in bed for a couple of minutes wondering what had just happened. Since then, I began to explore different ways to masturbate - dry humping my pillows, soft porn on tumblr and homemade sex toys. Looking back, it was a great experience! Let me know if you have any questions!

  • I heard about it at age 12. It finally happened when I was 13, almost 14. Had pubic hair for about 6 months. I started having more frequent erections over time. One night in bed, I noticed it felt good to lay on my front and push against the bed. I fell asleep pushing against the bed and then I woke up abruptly with this amazing feeling right as I started ejaculating. I made a huge mess. I tried to stop it but it was involuntary once it started. I was terrified at the mess I made on the sheets and my underclothes and felt a little ashamed. But I never to this day have ever felt such an amazing feeling as when I ejaculate. The first few times was a shock and unexpected surprise but felt so incredible.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I figured it out by myself

    • Me too.

  • Classmate told me about it. Third grade.

  • Trial and error

  • I touched my dick as a teenager

  • A chance encounter with the shower spray.

  • My parents had a book entitled "Human Sexuality" with lots of pictures and easy to understand insight. Read it cover to cover and then had friend explain to me how to do it as well and there you go.

  • I was 13 and went to a school camp. There a 16 year old senior told us that he watch hot movie scenes, pour some oil on dick, hold it and move up and down fastly. Then a white milk came.

    Next day I went home and tried it and milk came lol. Was not thicky.

  • 11 I found out through porn, it was a natural reaction weirdly

  • by accidentally rubbing myself against the sheet thinking of a girl I liked back then, was natural in a way? Cause I didn't even knew what the white liquid that came out was

  • curiosity

  • I got an urge to start rubbing my dick on the pillows after school one evening. Thinking about a girl that I like. When noticed it getting hard I stood up and looked at which got me even more turned on, so I carried. I thought I’d broken it when I ejaculated but it felt so good. Then it just developed from there until one day I thought of using my hand.


    How about you?

  • From a classmate in junior high.

  • Figured it out by accident, then I couldn’t stop

  • Of cousin of mine. An older neighbour boy had jerk off in front of her and she showed told what to do and how to do it.

  • It just happened one night and then I figured it out from there (pretty quickly).

  • I have answered this very same question three times today.

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