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How dirty could it be?

My boyfriend says that are things he wants to do during sex that he doesn't feel comfortable doing with me. He says that he's afraid he'd be too rough but I've actually asked him to be rougher in the past. But he also says that whatever it is he wants to do, it's so dirty he wouldn't be able to look at me afterwards. We've been together almost 6 years. I want him to feel comfortable with me about pretty much anything. Any ideas on what he could be wanting to do and do you think it would help him feel more comfortable if I initiated it?
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  • I would say start doing the things you want in the relationship. Show him by example what you want and willing to try during your intimate times. Be more physical than talkative about your fantasies. He may feel more at ease at opening up about what he wants to try

  • This might be better discussed offline. If you'll DM me, we can chat. I have some ideas what he wants and how you can get past this.

    • I can't dm anyone yet because I guess my xper level is too low still

    • That's a shame. Let me run a few things I feel like it might, repeat might be: - Role play with you as a whore who wants to be used and "abused." - Serious dark, rough , hard anal, probably with A2M - Some sadistic things like spanking you to tears and the fuck you for crying. Can you do those things and not feel badly about him or yourself?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Blow jobs, facials, anal sex, threesome?

    • Done all but the last. I brought it up and he said no.

    • Whips, chains, tie you up?

  • https://www.youtube.com/embed/B05BrLhYoU8

  • Honestly there are so many kinks, it would be impossible to guess. If he wants it he shouldn't have any issue discussing it.

  • This is bad you are not even Married

  • Ask him what he wants to do when you're in the throws. Tell him he can't have an orgasm until he tells you. Once a guy gets turned on, his mouth will get the better of his defenses.

  • Well depends upon what are the things you're already into and his level of imagination

    • Honestly im still finding out what im into, I do like being rougher but I've really only ever followed his lead. I was only 18 and very inexperienced when I met him, however he has quite a few more years of experience.

    • Hit myyy dm is interested to discuss on this

    • Can't. Apparently my xper level isn't high enough.

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  • Consumption of bodily waste, incest, beastiality, and/or torture; and I don't know if that is as dirty as it could be.

  • maybe he wants you to beg him and embarrassed to admit

  • Threesome
    maybe he wants you to peg him ,
    golden showers

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