How do Bi sexual women and straight women feel about dating Bisexual men?
Does it not matter, is it unattractive, or is it kinda cool?
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(3)If I was into dating, which I am not, thank goodness, then it would be a person that is totally straight without the hint of being bisexual. That would be a reason to sever a relation immediately. Why?
Because for any gender, it is hard enough to know that your straight partner has the pool of half the adult humanity to cheat on. Having a bi partner opens that pool to the entire adult humanity as potential cheating opportunity.
I could live with 2+ billion adult women being competitors but 4+ billion adult women AND men, that is definitely more than I would be willing to risk.
One is not bi because one is satisfied with the opposite gender but because one wants to try out the own gender as well. And where there is temptation there is always a way.
However, there are certainly a whole number of people that are not disturbed by that sad fact. Simply, I don't want to be involved in something I know is not my cup of tea. Why take any risk when there is no need to take any?
It appears I can go back to liking your posts with the emojis disposed of. 🙂
I don’t think cheating has anything to do with sexuality, it all has to do with a poor moral compass, if one wants to sleep around with multiple people, then they should try polyamory, or a open relationship, or if someone is unhappy in a relationship, then just leave, don’t try to play both sides and have the stability of a relationship while also behaving as if you were single. I’ve personally never cheated on anyone, if I couldn’t get a relationship to work with open honest communication or if my partner was abusive, I cut ties, I’ve been cheated on multiple times, by straight women, and it hurts a lot… just because I enjoy sex with both genders doesn’t make me a unfaithful partner… everyone has kinks and fantasies but if you choose to be in a monogamous relationship then you are making a choice to commit to a individual… I would never reject a woman because she is sexually interested in other women or has experimented in the past, we only live once why judge someone for being themselves.
@PrettyPriya Good Golly, you are right. I did not notice it. Thanks for the update.
Personally, I could not do it. The roadblock for me is that I would never be enough considering the person is bisexual and prefers intimacy with both genders. I think it would be a mental thing for me that I could never give him everything he needed in an intimate sense.
So, it would be a no go. I do not judge people based on sexuality. If that person is bi or gay, fine with me. It has no bearing on my life whatsoever. However, I just cannot see myself in a committed relationship with someone that was not straight.
Now, if they wanted to settle down and commit to one gender, that could be a different story... maybe. The problem still exists though that some day they might want something with the opposite sex than me. I do not share my partner and never would. I just do not think it would be a good fit for me personally.
Perhaps there are some people that can strike that balance. I am more family driven and want stability.
I’m currently in a relationship with a bi women and she was the first Girlfriend I ever told about my same sex hook ups, it was very scary and stressful but she was 100% excepting and was shocked that I was afraid that that would effect how she felt about me, she has also been and three-sums with her ex boyfriend and other women, so she said that we could have sex with men and women every once in awhile, but her "Straight Ex" ended up cheating on her so I feel like she’s scared to jump back into that. But I don’t care either way, I’m just happy that she was not only okay with my sexuality but wanted to know more about what I like about it, and we both bonded and our love grew so much more.
That is great that the two of you make it work. As mentioned, I am sure some people are okay with that arrangement and can deal with the complexity. I just could not I don't think. The real thing that matters is that you are both happy with your situation. In the end, that is what is important.
I could do it, but it would never be a preference.