How do guys decide whether or not to cum inside a girl?

It seems like it would be a tough decision if you don’t know for sure she’s on birth control. The reason I ask, I’ve slept with 2 guys since breaking up with my ex. Neither asked me if I was on birth control before we had sex. One finished inside me, the other pulled out. Is it just a spur of the moment decision?
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  • I'd imagine most guys would prefer to finish inside of the girl they're sleeping with. I mean, you're the one who's going to get pregnant so, in the heat of the moment, it's easy to say that the onus is on the chick.

    I've been the one making the decision with my boyfriend for several years. After all, I'm the one who knows if I'm on birth control or not, where I am in my cycle, etc.. If I'm a few days before I'm due to ovulate, for example, I'll tell him to pull out and finish on me right when things are getting started.

  • It should be a considered decision. You should have a say too.
    Anyway, if you don’t know them wouldn’t a condom be worn anyway?

Most Helpful Guys

  • If I find the girl really attractive or if she’s someone I have a friendship or a relationship with then I def prefer cumming inside them.. Every girl I've finished inside of has enjoyed it too. It’s a way to connect with someone and it usually feels really good for both people.. I’ve even had a couple of partners that have climaxed again just from feeling me push deeper inside and start cumming.. It feels incredible

  • It is always so much more intense, so INCREDIBLE, inside, but it is her choice, and what kind of birth control she chooses. I'm fine with condoms, but with certain ones, knowing she was taking the pill, sometimes it was BEYOND INCREDIBLE, inside, and holding her so close, and feeling her heart pounding, like mine!!

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  • They are horny and in the moment don't give a fuck and kinda just hope you are on birth control or simply don't care as they will never see you again (presumably). Also it's kinda hot to cum inside.

    Also start using condoms more people have stds than you might think and especially those who fuck around. If you get a fuck buddy you both can get tested and then go without condom but for one nights begin using condom or you might end up with a lot of regret.

  • Unless you specifically say don't cum in me then he can safely assume consent. A wise one would ask if you're on BC and use a condom if you weren't.

  • Please just use a condom the next time. Safe sex is incredibly important.

  • A tough decision? HUH? You should be talking about this (birth control) ahead of time ideally.

  • You didn’t used protection with either? OMG our education system has failed yet again.

  • It's depends how willing they are to take the risk. But most who aren't willing shouldn't go without condom. They might not care. Don't expect them to take responsibility. Or they have watched to much porn and pull out for that reason.

  • usually those with respect for the women they are with at the time have discust it with their partner beforehand

  • whatever feels good at the time. if you seem like you don't care, then whatever feels right.

  • If I'm not sure she's on birth control, I would only do it with a condom.

  • Even if you know she's on birth control, you wrap that rascal anyway. Not into Russian Roulette.

  • Really I think when a guy comes inside a female it's what makes the sex go even harder the juices and it's just awesome

  • If the girl let me i will

  • Very spur of the moment decision. Also, some guys just care about how good they feel in the moment.

  • thats why men wear condoms. sorry fellas but the pull out method rarely works and is too risky. you can get her preggers if some drips onto her vag.

  • i don't think any guys decide..
    it's just their preference..

  • depends on how much i know her. i'll observe a girl, see if she's taking the pill regularly (without telling her) and watch if she's a responsible person overall. it takes time. when i trust in her responsibility, i still ask if she for sure has taken the pill and everything is fine before i do it.

  • Used protection or pulled out most of the time when I was younger. Now I never pull out and they know upfront.

  • I wouldn't mind cumming in you ass

  • Use condom next time so you don't have to worry :)

  • Im a simple man. I mark my territory.

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