How do guys feel when a girl is in love with them but they dont feel the same?

[Anonymous]

I know that guys wanting to bang me and lusting over banging me is pretty disgusting and vile. But i know i have gotten in love with guys like a guy i work with. And never told him but who knows, maybe he can tell. Either way i think when a girl is dumb and in love with a guy she goes and chases him or tries to start something with him. And most guys are users so they will take that opportunity to use her at the least for sex if not for money etc. And in the end she still never gets to see the part of him that would be there if he was in love or loved her. So she wastes it all for less than nothing.

So what im saying here is that yes its creepy when guys want to bang us. but its also creepy to me when us girls are in love with guys who aren't our husbands. Just ponder how creepy it is. Just like guys wanting to inade oue personal physical space, is creepy, so is the way we want to invade a guys personal mind and heart. Like how when we fall in love we daydream about and fantacize about how we think his soul and personality are like and we project all these fantasies onto him. Just how pervert guys project how we look naked or having sex with them

[OlderAndWiser]

I have had one girl throw herself at me, and I actually had the hots for her, and would have gone boob-boom with her all night long (it was40 years ago when I still had the capacity to go boom-boom all night long,) except. . . she was a married woman (AND I knew her husband, who was a nice guy,) and that is absolutely against my rules. And even though I knew that rejecting her was the right thing to do, still I felt almost guilty about it.

I checked online a few years ago, and they are still married. That night forty years ago was one of my finer moments.

[Asker]

What night?

[Asker]

Also sadly you proved my point... The male will often use her for sex or be willing to but he will not fall in love. He will use her being in love weakness against her

[Asker]

How do you knoe she was in love? If she just three herself SEXUALLY, ouldn't she have just been a typical whorish girl?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. What night? The night 40 years ago when she threw herself at me and I told her to go home and work on things with her husband. 2. I could have said yes and she would have jumped into my car, I would have driven the half mile to my apartment, and soon been fucking her until her eyes popped out. . . but I didn't. And you responded, "Also sadly you proved my point... The male will often use her for sex." If that is your logic, here's a hamburger, and that proves that the Earth is flat. 3. Yes, she professed her love for me, and I felt some affection for her, but I knew she was married. She was a very respectable woman and did not have a whorish bone in her body, but she obviously was having marital problems, her judgment was impaired, and she tried to do something impulsively. 4. Before you go calling people "whores" and telling me that I proved your point, you should get the facts straight.

[Asker]

Ok well good then if true.

[Asker]

Feeling almost guilty about doing the right thing is not good though.

[OlderAndWiser]

I understand why you can never keep a boyfriend for very long.

[Anonymous]

It's awesome! Because this virtually NEVER happens in a guys life. And you could tell her simply not gonna happen, never going to happen, move along. Or you could have some fun with her (that doesn't mean sex! Get your mind out of the gutter) besides it's much more fun to play with a woman's mind then her body.
And I know you're saying I'm an a**hole right now. That's fine.
I'm not, just a guy who's been or the receiving end of these games more times than I can count. Turnabout is fair play. If a guy does it just right he can possibly break her spirit for an entire year. 😃

[Asker]

Thanks for showing girls what lowlife guys think. nso they see im nt making stuff upm lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Did you even read it? Or ate really just that selfish?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO hun. 😘

[Avicenna]

Probably a range of emotions. Some of us don't feel comfortable with that.

[Iron_Man]

It’s sad