How do guys separate sex from love?

I don’t see how it’s possible to have sexual relations without romantically being inclined
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  • Sex: Interest in Genitals, and anything in the Sexual Topic.
    Love: Interest in Her Day, How She's feeling, Offering help, if needed, etc!

  • Guys' brains work different from females in that regard. Historically, females are inclined to find the perfect partner, because you end up spending 9 months carrying the child and need the child to have the highest odds of survival and the female would often die giving birth (4/100 in the 1600s for example). Guys on the other hand are programmed to give their seed to as many females as possible for as many children as possible. This is purely biology/evolution.

  • Sex is the love for the body, love is linked with soul

  • Well it's hard for me, but for most it's possible.

  • Some people can do that but I can't in order for me to have sex with a girl I have to feel something for her for me it's more than just being attracted to them I have genuinely feel something real for them

  • i agree , I would need to love and trust a person.

  • Don't confuse sex and love

    • Guys, as well as some girls, can have or prefer having 'sexual relations without romantically being inclined'. Most people can do both if the 'personal boundaries' are 'fixed'. For example, many people have had a ONS, even if they are more romantically-inclined!

  • By trying to control there urges

  • Guys and girl both do it's for me sex is just sex something to do for the most part I find kissing way more special

  • Sex is fun love not always

  • the only way is to never see them again

  • Hard to do that. Sex usually = love

  • Girls do it too. It's simple. The genes don't care about love. They want the best partner. Plus, people who are hurt do it to get over the person who hurt them. I don't do it tho.

    • You look really cute 😍

  • Guys are different, not all guys separate sex and love

  • friends with benefits?

    it's literally, having sex, without the relationship LABEL

    pretty immature, eh?

  • Easily

  • For sexual satisfaction only.. like do you romance with your fingers during masterbation

  • If u see sex as a physical thing then it’s more like playing a sport. It’s nice to play with different people and sometimes u have to play on your own.

  • Sex is when I fuck you.. love is when I see u

  • I feel the same as you! I would have to be able to see us having a relationship hopefully get married to gave sex with a girl.

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