Guys, How do I (18F) come up with an excuse to give my boyfriend (22M) a Blowjob?

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Hey guys... We both belong to a very conservative country where anything related to sex is taboo... so both him and I have never had any sexual encounters with anyone But I've been with him for 7 months and he has been such a darling to me ♥... Listening to everything I say... cheering me up during difficult times... Helping me in my studies... He is truly a keeper... I want to take our relationship to the next stage... I'm scared of penetration (Pregnancy risk and all that...) and I'm certainly not walking into a store asking for a Condom lol... So I think sucking him off would be the best option here... no need to worry about protection or anything... and I've watched enough BJ videos to know what to do lol :P So yeah... How do I come up with an excuse to go down on him (trust me he deserves it lol)? I don't want to make him uncomfortable or something... and I'm just too shy to directly ask him to have sex with me lol.. Thanks in Advance!! K.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

I don't think you need an excuse. Just kiss him for a while. Then start to remove his clothes while you're still kissing him. Then kiss down his body. There are some here who will tell you consent doesn't matter or it's a mood killer, but just before you touch him, look him in the eye and say, "may I?"

The alternative route to this is to talk with him and be gloriously honest: tell him you dream of oral sex with him. His response will be your answer.

summiter · Accepted Answer

Maybe start out with a handjob first and see how it goes. First tell him that you want to just get naked with him, then tell him that you want to feel his penis (which will be very hard) slowly start stroking it... ask him to show you how he does it.

Dargil · Answer

Simply tell him you want to feel close to him and want to taste his semen and feel what it is like to suck him.

bowenw · Answer

Tell him how you feel about him and ask if you can express your affection for him in a more intimate way.

DavidRaul · Answer

You have to work your way up. Try having a sexual talk and ask him how he sees you sexually , then ask him about the blowjob and see if he likes it or not. Just be patient. Its not gonna be difficult

that1guy19 · Answer

You never need an excuse. It should be because you enjoy it and want to make him happy. Hell just say you're bored and it's fun.

tfan1 · Answer

Say baby you know how I don’t want to have sexual intercourse, not yet But you have been so good to me, would you like to try 69 position? That way you both would get pleasure 👍🙂

Kryzo · Answer

Oh an Indian girl looking to give head. Do you have a twin I can date lol? I thought Indian girls usually don't do blowjobs and whatever and are pretty vanilla.

JPresidente · Answer

Try wrestling with him, then surprise him, grab his junk, massage it and then take his pants down.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

How about this instead: don't be a whore? This is why governments ban the internet. Because of naughty children like you.

kellytheman · Answer

Just say your not ready for penetration and rather start off with oral sex and I pretty sure he be all right with you giving him a blowjob. Also it good to explore each other sexually before you do have penetration sex.