How do I accept that no man wants me?

Wanting to used my body for sex doesn’t count as wanting me. No man wants to date me and no man has ever liked me and asked me out. Tired of having hopes and daydreams that guys who flirt to me actually like me and are gonna ask me out. Never fucking happens.

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  • I am so sorry to hear this. I actually make reference to this often in that it seems like a lot of guys nowadays don’t really want to ask a girl out on a respectable date. The sad question is, why would they get married or commit if they can’t even just ask a girl out on a simple date, simply to get to know her? I don’t blame guys as much as I blame society in general for creating this horrible mindset. Porn, electronic devices, and video games has caused much disfunction in the way of relationships and intimacy. Unfortunately we live in a world now where the hook mup culture and friends with benefits is easy because no one really has to give anything. It’s just a take and receive type of mentality based purely on selfishness.

    I would encourage you to not give up. Remember there are good men out there in the world. Just like there are good women out there in the world. It’s worth being patient and finding one another. Give yourself enough time and realize you deserve to find someone who will truly respect and cherish you. Once he proves himself that way, then you will know he is not with you just for sex but because he actually loves you for who you are and what you represent as a person. With that type of foundation in place, the sexual intimacy will be out of this world amazing. The connection when you become one together will be extra special.

    • One last thing, don’t accept it that someone doesn’t want you. It’s not true. It might seem like it in the moment out of frustration but don’t give up hope. There is always someone out there for you. Find him

    • The men that flirt to me all the time but never ask me out prove that my value is garbage.

    • They don’t prove anything about your value. They prove that they are selfish and that they themselves probably don’t have any self value so they channel their disrespect to anyone but themself so they can feel better about themselves. Don’t ever let anyone else assign you your value. Your value should always come intrinsically. You have value because you know you are better than what someone else might make you out to be, or how they may treat you. And you have value because you are a daughter of God. What others may think doesn’t matter at all.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm very sorry to hear this.

    I suspect it isn't true, but it is difficult finding someone. Sometimes... the problem is ourselves. Certainly, there's a lot of corrupt man childs out there and they require training, it's a question of whom trains them and if they are trainable.

    Id have to know more than seeing an anon pink to say what is going on and how to improve your chances. I've seen people who are totally awful, don't look great, or have other issues... find mates when others more attractive couldn't.

    Luck, fortune, effort, dating skills?

Most Helpful Girls

  • You focus on yourself, do the things you enjoy, and forget about men.

    • I need sex lol. ( I don’t have premarital sex though)

  • if you opened up your PM maybe you would get the right answers there

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  • We are not defined and valued by our beauty or whether one of the opposite sex selects us. Neither beauty or girlfriend define me. I hope that I may convince you of this.

    Perhaps, you can focus on other parts of your life. I’m not sure what your career goals may be. Hobbies that can be enjoyed or even generate income.

    Either way our identity is not defined by beauty, cosmetic surgery, body count, and/or whether I have a woman.

    I don’t like it but 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • Stop trying to get a guy and just focus on having fun and loving yourself. Find something u like or things u like... have discussions with people, with friends and strangers u meet who talk with u. If u love urself and can have fun by yourself... that positive vibe is just gonna make u more attractive overall

    • I don’t try to get a guy. I never chase men.