How do I as a single mother find the time to have a sex life?

[Sarah3579]

[bzcxx]

I think it depends on the age of your child.
If your child is really young and unable to be away from your line of sight for long, having a good sex life would be close to impossible.
Note that I used the words ‘close to impossible’ rather than impossible.
Of course when you’re caring for a child and have someone over for sexy time, you can’t take your time in bed like you normally would.
Additionally, you have to ensure that you’re ready at all times to stop sex midway to attend to your child. Of course this could be frustrating for both you and your partner, so your hookup must be understanding and reasonable. If your child is a bit older and started pre-school, there you’ll find some time to ‘settle your urges’ while he’s under the watchful eye of teachers in school.
Personally for me, if my kid were young and in a single parent, attending to my child would certainly be a priority, despite having ‘needs’.
I have a SUPER high sex drive, and when I’m in a relationship, I desire sex all the time.
However, now that I’m single, I still get horny and have lots of urges, but I’m surprisingly okay having sex once every few months with my friends with benefits. Sex Toys gets the job really well done for me and I have no complaints. Let me know if you have further questions.

[SnowedIn]

Befriend another single mom and trade nights. Find a neighbor who is willing to watch your child (we did that for neighbors several times; the mom broke down in tears with my wife about not having had sex in like 18 months). If you go to church, there will always be people there you can ask for babysitting help. But, that's the child care part.

The other part is your schedule. You and only you can make time. At least once a week you can find X amount of minutes/hours and have some sex. You're in charge of carving that time out. I'm a dad so I know that parenting is horrifically time consuming but you can find the time and be consistent with it.

The other thing I'd suggest is to make sure you're giving yourself quality masturbation time. No, it's not sex, but it can help you in between.

[Anonymous]

Guys will do it any time day or night, so find an hour when your kids are somewhere else or being looked after by someone.

[bzcxx]

That’s true 😂 but I assume her kid must be really young

[Opinion Owner]

@bzcxx "being looked after by someone."

[bzcxx]

I know but I think she wants a constant and stable sex life rather than a hook up once every few months. Might be tough finding someone to care for your kid at least once a week, NGL.

[slatyb]

Do you have anyone who can watch your child occasionally?

[jshm2]

As a single mother your shitty sex habits are why you are single and left to be a sole parent.

Concentrate on improving your lot, and caring for your child.

[MementoMori777]

If you find one guy that you like, you'll have a sex life, if you want to have sex with random strangers then you are just complicating things

[ThinkerShell]

Is there a guy or you wanna find/hook up?

[bowenw]

Take some deserved time for yourself and have fun.

[exitseven]

If you are not rich enough to hire a nanny you should forget about it.

[Grond21]

Get married

[kellytheman]

It might be tough and does depends how old your kid or kids are. I have had relationships with single mothers before and it was hard to find time to get intimate with them usually the weekends was the best time if they kids when to see there other parent or when to a sleepover at a friend's. You need to find a guy who is flexible and willing to work around his and your schedule to have sex.

[Stevefiveo]

Find a guy that has a teen daughter that can babysit.

[DrewJohnson]

I think you'll have to make time for it. Do you have a partner (or two or three) in mind already? Plan a time, the kids could be in bed or with a sitter. It'll take some work but it'll be valuable for you as a woman and you as a mom.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yo don't. Put your child first and realize that being a good parent means putting your dating/fucking on the back burner.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Don't. I mean would you like another fatherless child?

[blumoonury]

Have you considered getting an anal vagina? The first anal birth just happened

[Fleet7635]

I’m sure you can find a guy to fuck yes at home I’d leaving is an issue I’d you are just waiting cock

[In_Trance]

If it's important, you'll find the time

[Rudon00]

Have you put yourself out there on the dating Arena?

[Userben]

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[Sarah3579]

Why?

[Userben]

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[Sarah3579]

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[Userben]

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[sealoforichalcos]

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[Sarah3579]

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[Userben]

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[sealoforichalcos]

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[CubaPirate]

With careful planning

[MasterKS]

live for yourself.

[RogueScorpion]

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