How do I ask my hookup for rough s*x?

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For him he’s not someone I can just outright ask and frankly it’s embarrassing for me, so how can I ask him for rough sex? Like ways I can ask discretely so he gets the hint

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

Whenever he does something you like, let him know how much you enjoy it.

If say you like spanking, and he spanks you, you can say, “Yes!”

If you like being choked, you can moan.

If he does something else you like, you can beg him more more.

Note: If he’s the kind of guy that genuinely likes to dominate in the bedroom (a Top), he won’t like taking orders. So don’t tell him what to do. Let him tell you what to do. And if you want him to do something, you don’t demand—you beg for it while in heat.

So basically, you can give him positive feedback, and do it in such a way where he feels like the one in charge.

Another note: If things ever get too rough though, it may be good to agree on a safe word. Which is basically a word you can say to call time out.

Guido · Accepted Answer

When your having sex become very vocal. When he us pumping in you tell him Harder, Come on give it to me harder, Ram my pussy good, Fuck me deep with that big cock, Faster, Harder, etc.

You get the idea. When he starts doing it the tell him Yes like that. More of that. He will get the idea.

summiter · Answer

Next time when you are having sex just tell him " I like it when you do..." or " go faster or go harder" but do it when you are naked and having sex. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Greetings dear hook up, would you mind having rough sex with me? I like... I don't like...

slatyb · Answer

Start with the simple things and be specific. He may be thinking the same, but is equally afraid to talk to you about it. What do you mean by rough? Being physically controlled and "forced" ? Maybe tell him "You know, you can... I would love it."

AviatorTom · Answer

Next time you're having intercourse, just yell out "Harder. That feels so good! Harder"

MikeTheBartender · Answer

If it's a casual relationship, or even a serious one, I don't think this is very hard to bring up, before you guys would start to rock and roll, tell him listen John Steve Mike whatever his name is, I want you to go more rough on me tonight, I'm not afraid, you can hurt me it's okay. And then let it go as far as you are comfortable with.

Answer my dirty poll when you have time

Girls, Your man wants your tongue in his dirty spots, which do you choose?

artgorgeous · Answer

Just ask during sex. Tell him you need more intensity.

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

It depends on what your idea of "rough" is.

Dragan · Answer

When sex start. Harder, fuck me so hard...

Snedger____ · Answer

While having sex look into his eyes and ask him to fuck wild

In_Trance · Answer

You'll let him be inside you, but you can't ask a question?🤔

OddBeMe · Answer

Don’t ask. Just do.

MasterKS · Answer

What to hide/ openly ask for your need.

azgınteke · Answer

you make it hard and she will understand, for example bite your dick lightly.

ILoveeatingGirlass · Answer

Ask me

Anonymous · Answer

You simply throat him hard, he'll want to make you puke

Anonymous · Answer

A woman loving to have rough sex is, imho, so not attractive!

Will you complain if he smacks you - hard? Chokes you too strongly? Penetrates you with his cock with no foreplay, when you're not even aroused or wet? Turns you over and f**ks your ass?

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you write s*x instead of sex?

Anonymous · Answer

That's a tough one, I wish I knew the answer because I have the same dilemma. I feel like it's just not his personality.

How do I ask my hookup for rough s*x?

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