HOW DO I ASK MY MAN TO RECORD OUR SEX?

he's not my boyfriend but we have a really strong connection and we've had sex several times, he seems to be very open about my fetishes even though I've never explicitly asked for anything, I'm afraid he'll think I have some bad intentions or something like that in about filming us. it is just a kink i have for years and to me and only me (also he if he wants too) see it afterwords. Have you already recorded yourselves and how did you bring this subject up? before or during sex? and also give me safety tips if he accepts please. thank you guyssss ♡

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  • communication is the key. talk to him about it. bring it up at the right time in a sexy kind of way like "it would really turn me on if we recorded our session tonight" with the usual pouty lips look lol. im sure he won't object as most guys would find that hot, also you stated that he has been down with your other kinks.

    as for the intentions, i dont think he'll take it the wrong way, he will just be thinking he is a porn start lol. but that can be cleared up in conversation if needed.

    but first of all, how do you intend to record the session? i have done it before just using my mobile phone and resting it so it catches the action. you could use a gopro or something like that. but i would suggest that you have the details worked out before you ask the question.

    hardest part is the safety aspect. now i wouldn't let him have a copy of the clip unless you are willing for it to be posted and shown around his mates. no disrespect, but at 22 i assume your guy is of a similar age and at that age, guys can be quite immature and like to brag to their mates about conquests etc. so providing him with a copy would be a risk. but you could say invite him round to watch it and make another fun evening of it as will guarantee to get him in the mood for more. lastly a lot of this comes down to trust. now i have done it with people that i trust implicitly, and that is why they allowed it as there was a mutual trust that i could rely on, not just a fling or a ex, but someone that i put all my trust in and know it won't go further, also them the same. i have never shown the vid to anyone and never will. its ours and ours only. so ask yourself how much can you (not do you, but can you) trust this guy? i would not recommend secretly filming it as that would demonstrate a lack of trust on his part if he did find out.

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  • You could start by asking him if he's ever done it before or if he's ever thought about doing it. If you can get him to agree to it, lay down some rules before starting especially if you want to include your faces. Record it on your phone so you have control of it.

    • Thank you for the MHO. 😊 Did you convince him to go through with it?

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  • Just tell him that you're much more passionate in bed when you're being recorded.

  • Probably a bad idea. Sense you use him for sex anyways

  • I've not recorded as I don't trust any apps on my phone. But I'd be ready if she is.

    Just tell him straight.

  • Maybe just ask him during the moment or just say you want to make a sex video and most guys would be interested.

    Just out of curiosity, what do you plan on doing with the video?

  • I have - and I just asked straight away. After breakup I was told I could keep it. So I did.

  • Just ask him before sex. Make sure you arouse him before proposing. Best safe too is that you use your cell phone to record. Show the video to him and don't send it after

  • It really need

  • His friends will be seeing you fuck him by the next day.