How do I become good at sexting?

Like good to the point of being able to help a guy cum, I know pictures help and I don't mind sending them so what type of things do I say? and more important type of pictures do I send?


(I'd rather remain anonymous so it is pointless to ask me to message you, if you really wanna help you'll have to do it here - use the anonymous feature if needed)
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  • For pics, maybe look up some sexy poses and copy them. Definitely make sure you do some basic editing (brightness, contrast, saturation, warmth, etc.) because that makes a huge difference. Start more innocent and gradually get dirtier. Like start with your shoulder popping out of your top and gradually build up to nudity, then gradually build up to pics/videos touching yourself in cute poses.

    For texts, ask him for pics and tell him that they turn you on. Tell him how and where you want to touch him. Again, start more innocent like, "Your shoulders look so strong. I'd love to feel them," and build up to, "Your cock is making me so wet. I want to feel it enter me." Include excessive emojis and sex sounds (ooo's and ahh's) and you'll be an expert in no time.

  • Read an erotic novel and see how its done. Watch some videos where women give jerk off instructions, and audio too where women just talk erotically. Then you condense the ideas and put it on a screen. Always use the guys own imagination as your friend. Tell him to "picture me doing this, and that, with my hand or my mouth or my pussy". Let him build himself up into a frenzy - it won't take much.

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  • Imagination, creating a story, adding atmosphere, make it seem possible, make it seem like its either happening now or is going to happen next time you see them

    read some erotic stories, think about a story in your head and paint the scene in words

    • You should be able to make him cum without photos, suggestion, anticipation are really good at this. But it really comes down to learning what each other like. Him saying he is going to hammer your arse hard n deep, is not really ideal, if the mere thought of anal makes you puke in your mouth lol.

  • It's an Art form you have to feel the moment and put your self right there you can make a person feel anything you want it's just how and what you say at or in that moment and you have to stay on top of it and make it go where u feel is the hottest to be honest the best way is for me to show you what I mean I'm not sure but u can send anonymous messages I can try that way I know you said do it here but I'm not really sure of that

  • Depends on the guy. Different people like different things. The pictures are simply not as important to me, though they are nice. Want a position? Go for pictures that center on your face, but also get your butt and thighs to frame your face, if you follow, like you're crawling toward the camera.

  • As they say, practice makes perfect. So find out what turns him on and go from there. When you start sending pics, tease him a bit and don't send nudes right off. Make him wait for the grand prize, lol.

  • Just be very descriptive and use your imagination. Sometimes you can ask want he want you to do to him.

  • well you wanna be obedient, follow some requests and tell him how you like doing them for him, if you really wanna be forward with it then tell him how you think of him in situations hed find sexy, for example in bed, while in the shower make him feel like he's in your mind

  • Being proactive is a key. Nothing worse thsn sexting partner who only says 'mmmm'

  • What you want to say just normal or you want to be kinky

  • Sexting requires two hands and a lot of typing.
    Phone sex only requires one hand leaving the other to go between your thighs.

  • I will tell yıu everything you need, you should message me

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