How do I broach the topic of CNC?

It is an extremely topic to even bring up, yet I am interested in experimenting with the idea.

Consentual NonConsent, or rape play, is something that I am curious to try with my partner, but I'm concerned what she will think of my being into that. Does anyone have advice on how to bring up CNC in a safe way?
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  • Don't call it that to her... call it Rape Fantasy. Ask her about her fantasies... then go from there. DO NOT attempt it without explaining every detail first. Talk about exactly what will happen to her. Also, use a Safeword!!!

    • Of course. It would be irresponsible to do that without discussing the act at length beforehand.

  • Well, my boyfriend told me he'd like me to "rape" him, so we started role playing, and we both liked it... sexy wrestling is the best ;)

Most Helpful Guy

  • The way gender politics is now days I say that kinda stuff is legally real risky. Do that and your one bad breakup away from a prison sentance.

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  • I don't know tbh, my girlfriend admitted it was a huge turn on for her so it was easy for us lol