How do I check if a girl good in sex?

I live in a society that can't have sex before marriage or engagement... How do I make sure that the girl I'm engaged to will be okay with me in bed
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  • You don't. End of story!

    If sex is so important to you that you have to check on that little detail, then you are definitely not ready to get married and you are much better off remaining single your entire life.

    If marrying a person is solely about having intercourse and fornicating, then this poor girl is in for a real bad surprise. On the other hand, how will this poor girl know that you are good in bed? It does not mean that because you have a monster 6'' penis, that you also know how to operate this equipment.

    That would be such a disappointment for that poor girl that thinks she gets someone experienced and only finds out a man that reaches his climax in 30 seconds!

    • You only look through the eyes of a girl and do not understand a man's needs!!! The man has many goals and sex is a primary goal of them... this is not my words but the words of all world studies... I want to live with someone for more than 40 years... I want him to simply meet my needs... and she has Other needs that must be met

Most Helpful Girl

  • You can't.
    But communication is key.
    Once you can have sex.
    Talk to her about what works and don't work.
    Also, you have to be open to her doing the same.
    Once you discuss the things that works for both of you, try them, and walk eachother through how to please you.
    Once you get it down, y'all will have an amazing sex life

Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly you don't and can never know, but usually in society with these arranged marriages there is exception for the man when it comes to polygamy as well. Or at least they used to be in the days of Sultans with there harams of women, before the world found religion.

    So I guess you get what you get and have to wait on your 50 virgins in heaven for living a life of sacrifice when you where among the living.

  • There are TWO issues (a) good with ME and (b) ... in bed.
    If she's candid with you, she's self sexually-experimented either by accident or through masturbation.
    As for "with you" the issue hinges upon genuine mutual communication. Lack of candor
    degrades both experiences and expectations.

    The goal is savoring "the journey" NOT the end destination~

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Does your society forbid you to discuss sex with your fiance before the marriage?

  • You can find out if she good in theory by asking her questions about that.

  • You don't.

  • By speaking f about sex beforehand but thats pretty much all u can do if u can't do stuff beforehand

  • You won't know unless you have sex with her. Being good at sex can be learned so even if she's bad you both can practice getting better at it.

  • Try before you buy.

  • You don’t you can always teach her later

  • By having sex with her. There is no other way.

  • You have sex anyway and to hell with ancient traditions

  • Have sex with them or talk to enough women u know what they’re about quickly upon meeting them

  • Many people in these situations just have sex and don't tell anyone they did.