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How do I deal with a friend who touch me inappropriately?

I can't say any details because it's awkward and inappropriate, so i will say it in a nutshell.

He is not that much of a close friend but i can't avoid getting in touch with him and he always find a way to touch my private parts as if it's not on purpose. He acts in a pervy way most of the time and always staring at me. He does a lot of pervy things which i can't say.

What can I do in this situation? I don't want to make things awkward because he is always around and it's hard to avoid seeing him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you were to ask me, I'd say smack Him! Show Him that you don't appreciate it, or Him at all!
    I occasionally ACCIDENTALLY touch a Girl inappropriately, but every Girl it's happened to knew it was accidental. (I work at a job where it's kind of crowded, and most of my Co-workers are Girls) Plus, I act Gentlemanly, and the Ladies are comfortable around me... But to the point, if He acts pervy and ungentlemanlike, I'd say it's on purpose. Call Him out! Get Him in trouble! Smack Him! I'M MAD!!

    • I'm not the type who is aggressive tbh.. I want a solution where i don't hurt him and make things get back to normal

  • What about s. th. like this: "I don't want you to touch me again. And I say this just once to you. So do you a favour and avoid to get into embrassing trouble."

    • Sounds good to me, i will try saying it next time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Happened to me too, guy best friend asked one day to massage his back, so I did, in return he massaged mine, before I knew it his hands were in my underwear, I stopped him and we left it there.
    Then he would always ask me stuff like how I liked pubic hair on guy and stuff, so one day he asked asked if I could watch him masturbating so I said no and he still did. I watched him. After that he was very awkward around me and I also felt awkward, luckily nothing like that ever happened again.

    • This is disturbing and disgusting, what happened to me is not like what you said and not even similar to it though.

  • No means no. You don't have to be very harsh and make it awkward, but bring it up to him and ask him to stop. If he keeps doing it, then strictly tell him to stop it, or make new friends with other people. You never need people like him in your life.

    • I kinda struggle when it comes to this thing but I'll try to. I made hints which didn't work out.. I guess you're right, I'll be brave and handle it next time it happens.

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  • He touches your private’s

    you give a strong upward thrust with the palm of your dominant hand to the underside of his chin.

    He’ll stop after that, no words necessary

    • I'm not really an aggressive and i can't do these things..

    • Try it you’ll appreciate that you can defend yourself

  • Next time he does it slap him

    • I can't do that :/ I'm not used on doing such a thing

    • You need to defend yourself though

  • Push him away and tell him to stop. Make it clear that you know it's not an accident and it is unacceptable.

    • I did few times but he doesn't get the hint

    • Well, that's not acceptable. First of all, make sure that you are giving him more than just a hint - leave no room for interpretation. If you've done that and he is still sexually harassing you, tell someone of authority about it. Most places have laws against this - touching your genitals is regarded as sexual assault, a serious crime that can result in long prison sentences. Even less physical harassment is not acceptable and there should be somebody that will support you. If this is happening in the workplace, you could report him to management or human resources. Otherwise (or as well), you could report it to a friend or relative, and you could report the groping to the police. It might even help to tell him that you will report him to the police if he ever touches you again.

  • Call him on it. He's assaulting you. He's probably doing it to other women too.

    • I'll try to

    • "Dude! Keep your hands to yourself!" next time: "Dude! Stop touching me! I don't like it!. If it happens again I'm reporting it."

    • Third time -- report it to whoever is appropriate. Is this a school setting? How do you know the guy?"

  • If you're in the US you can get the police involved. Get video of this sick behavior and just turn it over. The'll arrest him pretty quick.

    • I don't wanna reach that far and would like to have an easier solution

  • Talk to him direct about it. State your feelings and tell him to stop! Do not back down. If he lacks respect for you and your wishes punch him and call the cops.

    • I tried telling him, he stops but later on he repeats it and so on..

    • Do you respect yourself?

    • I know what you gonna say.. Don't mock me or make fun just because you can handle these kind of situations, thank you either way.

  • Tell him that you don't like it.. and tell him to stop😉

    • I tried doing hints about that but it didn't work

    • Tell him straight or simply ignore him😉

    • I did tell him straight forward, he said sorry and stopped but later on he repeats it.. I also tried to ignore him and avoid being near him but he keeps getting closer and doing pervy things even when he is not near me

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  • Well just quit hanging out with the President.

    • lol..

  • Next time he "accidentally" touches your private parts, inappropriately, you too accidentally touch his and make sure it is very painful. Repeat this 3-4 times and I promise you, he'll stop touching you inappropriately.

    • I can't do that... I'm not into aggressive things

    • C'mon just a little kick in the balls.

  • Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable

    • I did make hints but no use

    • Don't make hints. Tell him straight out.

  • Hi Jenna, your situation happened to me or maybe related to it and i asked a similar question but kinda awkward details so don't judge me.

    Check my profile there is a question but i can't put the link because it says i must be level 3 or something.

    There are a lot of useful answers, check it out I'm sure it will help you 😊

    Sorry for answering randomly like that I'm not really good at replying but i hope you get what i mean.

    • Oh I'm sorry that happened to you, hopefully everything is fine now :c I'm struggling at this moment with a similar situation and i know how you felt :/ Thank you for trying to help, i will read the answers. Don't worry i know what you mean and how hard it is to explain.

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