How do I deal with a guy who uses me to satisfy his urges?

[Rakiaaaa]

im in an open relationship with one of my college friends who first demanded to see me on video call, then demanded me to show my body and then demanded to see me. for all this since i was blindly in love with him i agreed nevertheless now he wants me to stay in one hotel room with another prostitute. i dont even know what proostitute means. i have tried negotiating with him about dropping that idea and then he says if he is to drop that idea then he wants to continously meeet me which i can't do, or else telling lets take break. what should i do? i dont want to be with prostitute and also if i tell can't he wants to break up. what should i do?

[shanshu]

Break up with him or dont, you are free willingly going along with what he wants and he's trying to control you.

He knows you have feelings for him which makes you an easy target to let him do what he wants with you and he knows you will struggle to leave him.

If you don't cut the rope then he will have you on a leash pulling you when ever he want pleasure and that's all he wants.

And if he's got other prostitutes and had sex with them it's possible he might of caught something and he could pass it on to you.

If he's trying to turn you on to a prostitute which means pimping you out to guys to make money while you have sex with them then it shows he doesn't have any ounch of feelings for you and just wants to use you and have others use you and him making money off it.

So if that what you want then do it, if not then walk away.

It will hurt but you will be better off finding someone better for you.

But your choice

[Guffrus]

Stop seeing him, he is a fucking prick.

He doesn't care about you, but he knows that you care about him and he is using that to exploit and manipulate you.

Why would you want to give yourself to a guy like that instead of trying to find someone who actually cares about you?

[WhitneySnow]

He’s not your boyfriend and he doesn’t really like you he’s just using you. You should dump him and block him.

[OlderAndWiser]

It sounds as if you want to be used and degraded and told what to do. Aren’t you having fun?

[LazerBean]

I don't associate with such people.

[20yearsolder]

What power does he hold over you? How about you tell him to go fuck himself. You're no longer fucking him or listening to his rules.

[Sparkie460]

Dump the guy and fast. Before you know it he'll make you a prostitute and you'll be fucking other guys and he'll get the money

[DiegoO]

Dump him. You're not a robot.

[In_Trance]

Use him too

[Waldoe]

he doesn't care about anything except sex... you deserve better, you are not a person to him, you are just an easy Orgasm

[driven159]

break the hell up with him he does not have your best interests at heart get away fast how many red flags do you need

[Jmmmfi4]

Ditch this guy

[Yellovv]

He want to use you only for your pussy, if he fed up from your pussy he can definetly find somebody else...

[Anonymous]

Have an ounce of self-respect and drop him.

[Opinion Owner]

I’ll just add that if I were to paint a picture of how your relationship is going to pan out with him, you’d regret ever spending 1 second of your time and effort on him. Don’t say I didn’t warn you when you realize what a mistake you made 4 years from now.