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How do I dress appropriately?

It’s summer where I live and it’s hot. I have an hourglass figure and big breasts, a cleavage, long limbs. I tend to have difficulty not looking sexual, even without effort. At this gathering, there are going to be men and women my age and younger, in their twenties and thirties going. It’ll be a hot day and I need to wear something light, but is it inappropriate to wear cleavage bearing, leg revealing dresses to these events? They’re mostly all I’ve got, except for one dress that looks more conservative and covers my cleavage and legs. I don’t want all the men looking at my legs and breasts, there. I’m going there to make friends.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Dress like a boy in summer. Guys retain more body heat than girls do. They’re able to keep cool.

    Keep a necklace fan. Wear some sunscreen.

    If you want the guys and don’t wish to admit it, just go naturally. Things will happen as they will happen.

    Sole guys may not like it if you stare at them, but you will? 🤷‍♀️

    It’s a human world that we live in lol.

    If an adult told you to dress “appropriately,” taking their suggestions, aiming for summer business casual, or any outfit that doesn’t look like you want to have sex will do.

    Don’t overthink it.

    Have fun. Best to you sis! 😊

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ever seen a street corner hooker dress? I assumed you have.

    And ever seen a old lady dress, yes you have.

    You get those two extremes of dressing style and mix it and you will have right in the middle.

    You can look nice without looking like a whore nor a old lady that dresses boring with no style.

  • My suggestion is or something conservative. You never can go wrong and you don't ever want the most awkward moment of some dude staring at your your breasts. You can still make friends without showing off your assets. Whatever you choose I'm sure you'll enjoy your time, making excellent friends.

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  • I'm big boned and the sweat usually finds my cleavage but I still manage to dress appropriately in a tube top and slacks.

  • If that is what you're worried about then you can wear the dress that looks more conservative, or maybe shop for some new conservative clothes? problem solved haha

  • If you don’t want guys to look at your legs or cleavage, the only 100% effective solution is to cover them. This doesn’t mean you can’t wear stylish clothing.

  • You can dress the way you are comfortable with.

  • There are a couple women online who have similar figures to yours who have done really great videos advising women on how to dress well. How to find clothes that flatter your figure, that make you look pretty, but don't oversexualize you at the same time. If you would like them I can send you the links

    • Yes please. I find it very hard not to look sexual in my clothes and I’ve been attracting some really strange men and bums.

    • I am sorry to hear that. Do you want them hear or in a PM?

    • Either one.. private message perhaps?

  • Just come to my place and you don't need to wear anything 😉🤤

  • I know it's hot but try to wear like a shirt and jacket or some leggings for you legs.

    If your legs and cleavage are on show then guys are going to look and flirt with you.

    Go in dungerees

  • Summer dresses with less cleavage. Good bras. If it's REALLY hot some girls go commando.

  • I would not worry about how you dress. Most women, even on TV, are showing their cleavages and legs.

    • Thank you for the Like

  • Wear whatever makes you look sexy, and comfortable.

  • Obviously take conservative dress, you seem like such a hottie

    • Thanks. I used to be hot, but I’ve put on weight from my antidepressants, so now I’m just pretty in a Bridget Jones’s Diary character way. But it’s hard to look modest when I have so much shape. I got some attention from some very strange men last year, including a stalker, who still stares at me, regardless of what I wear. So I must be making a mistake, somehow. I have Autism, so I don’t know how, but I assume it’s about my clothes.

    • Abram hoffer says interesting things about depression you could read as informative

    • Also you may want to cut dairy from your diet, but you should read about it first, there is a lot of information and where it is bad, it is always nice to try things and not just rely on meds

  • It really depends what type of event and what type of attire is requested (going there to make friends is kind of vague) and how revealing the outfits are.

    • The dresses I wear often show a hint of cleavage but even when I cover up my chest and legs, men look at me. I had a stalker and a lot of attention from a lot of strange and very desperate men and I want to not have a repeat of it this year.

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