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How do I encourage my lady to suck another guy’s cock while I watch?

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  • Go on Amazon and get two coins. One has heads on both sides, and one has tails on both sides. Make a series of playful bets, and make sure she wins about five in a row.

    For the last bet, if she loses she has to suck some guy's cock. If you lose you have to wash the dishes for a month. Keep the coins in your shirt pocket, and make sure she loses the last bet. Just make sure to pick a guy that she finds very hot.

    • Very cool, your super creative. I know your husband is happy.

    • Thank you. They really do have those coins online. They might work magice for you.

    • Do you perhaps have any other suggestions, this one was by far the most creative

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  • Best way is just to be direct. Tell her that you have a fantasy about watching her. Perhaps make it clear that you don't want her to do anything else with anyone, but just watch this one thing and then see how she reacts.

    • Wow that was genuine and I felt that 🥰💯

    • The direct way is the best way to be honest but I’ve tried that and she was considering it heavily! Literally really considering it and then objected the idea because she thought I was either Bisexual, I didn’t love her and/or I wanted to slut her out. But at the same time she was into it — so weird. Anymore suggestions, I like the way you think. I think I have to take a completely different approach and then do the direct thing after I got a few mini Yes’s. If you catch my drift. Thank you 😊

    • You'll have to re-assure her about all those things then I guess. I don't entirely know how to convince her if she doesn't want to. I love to suck cock and if my boyfriend wanted to watch, I'd do it, so it wouldn't take anything to convince me. But maybe re-assure her that she's not a slut for doing it and ask her why she thinks like that and then try to refute whatever reason she gives. Then maybe Brad has a good idea, tell her how hot it would be for you and how great the sex would be after she was done. And ask her if she has anything she'd like from you in exchange for it?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • You must write it in a formal letter ✉️

    Dear Madam:

    It would please me dearly if you would go down on another guy while I am in the same room and am able to see what is happening between you and the other guy.

    Professionally Yours,

    Boyfriend

    • Now that is bad ass 😎😝😋

  • Talk about it or watch some porn with her. Let her know how much it would really turn you on….. describe your fantasy extreme detail.

    Take it slow…. Talk about it, but don’t push it. Continue talking about it (watching some porn) over time.

    • Very sensual comment. When you say talk about it how can I bring it up in a relaxed way without seeming like a fucking creep. Haha

    • The easiest way is while watching porn together (if she is up for it). Another method might be inquiring what her favorite sexual things might be….. after you share some less edgy items too you could ask what is the most edgy / risqué thing she has ever thought about…. And so forth. The key to the continued conversation is to make her feel she is in a safe place (communicating with you) such that she can feel comfortable to say anything about anything….. this can also be accomplished without sexual type conversations…. (Non judgmental, open communication…not trying to solve her problems / listening, inquiring, understanding, learning). At some point (assuming she is important to you / you want to invest this kind of time with her/your relationship) the conversation should be easy.

    • Probably the best advice thus far, your definitely a lover and/or an empath. An amazing human you are. ♥️

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  • No idea.

    • Right

  • Talk about the fantasy and see if she has interest.

    • She is slightly but refrains from talking sexually.

    • Take your cues from that. DON'T force it or it'll become no. Be gentle. And patient. Anything else and she'll leave you.

    • 😊😊😊

  • Find a nice blowjob porn video online to watch with her and tell her you think it would be hot if you could watch her suck someone else?

    • She doesn’t like porn. 😂

    • Hmmm, don't know what your relationship is like but maybe go into some detail about how turned on you'd get and what all you'd do to her after he left

    • She will think I don’t love her for sharing her. That’ll be her initial thoughts, then she will proceed towards considering it, after she starts to think about it, her sex meter will began to rise and she will get warmed up to the idea and then she will renege against her own feelings because she will think that I’m doing it to be selfish and I’m just trying to slut her out. Even tho I’m not — so yes those were the feedback I got when I tried 3 years ago. I already know she will it’s just a certain way to go about making her want it for herself. Lmao

  • Let me talk to her.

    • Hahaha

  • Ask her. She probably won't want to but if yiu don't ask you don't know

    • This is very true

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