Practice and study like everything in life... lol
There's literally studies out there.
Sex Ed in high-school is a shadow of the truth.
Porn is bad to watch... ifnyoubuse porn as a guide, find real videos... not directed, no cam guys and girls but amateurs.
I'm pretty sure people used to watch each other long ago.
Next is practice things, learn things about yourself and learn things about guys...
Learn the exogenous zones on both males and females.
Rub him behind the ears, rub his chest,
There's spots guys don't talk about haha.
Try to be natural, don't try to be good... have fun..
Or
Maybe you need to think about things more and kind think ahead about what you want to do.
Go online see what people do to improve their relationship.
Two quick tips I can give you is...
Get a banana and get a good as black women are with bjs,
And 2nd, Dom him in a femine way, like riding him then getting slightly rough or edging him during a bj or tie job.
Also don't just have sex/ make love
Talk... communicate... guys are ALWAYS trying to figure out stay pleases women and get shat on for it... look at this site... he's probably on here asking how he can do better too.
Maybe y'all have fetishes y'all are too shy to bring up.
Maybe they'd things you can both do better.
When one of you say "do that more. Do that harder, do that softer/faster/ slower" don't let that be to turn them on...
Let that be to let them know what makes you feel good and the other will do it.
Do talk in ways that turn your partner on, everyone has some fucked up secret turn on.
Maybe call him good boy, or tiger or growl
Lastly
If either one of you can just get primal let go... then they other is automatically pleased because what does anyone want more than to please their partner...
Example bdsm doesn't work if either party suspects the other person doesn't like what's going on...
You can heal from sex, learn about yourself from sex. Share, pleasure, have fun, remember things, heal others...
Learn how to do massages to binaural beats...
Become a sex master for your partner and most importantly you.
I hoped this helped.
On top some like it when you grind slowly from back to front, others like you to lean back and steady yourself on their chest while you have them as deep as they can get, you could hold their shoulders and pick up your speed there’s a few options for making in top more fun
If I lived close to you I’d teach you. It’s something I love doing because it involves trust and makes a tremendous impact on a girls life to help her find pleasure. But just practice. PM me if you like.
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Watch porn and learn from it then try it irl
Practice makes perfect
relax. read up. think through hiw certain things mite work ling before you are mid-intamacy.
What you kiss a beloved one, what do you think about?
Pay attention to what the guy likes amd drive him. crazy. But make sure he does the same for you
Takes a lot of practice and patience from your lovers to help you perfect your moves.
Hi there id love to help
You need to feel comfortable and yes the more you have sex the more comfortable you will feel
Watch porn and try to learn. Just don't start talking cheesy
Do what you like, give a shit on what your partner want you to do. If you do what you want, he will like it too
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