How do I get more wet?

[Anonymous]

Whenever me and my boyfriend have sex.. my vagina goes dry
And it hurts his penis since he always last 15mins +

How do I make myself more wet down there?

[Leavesbound]

A lot might have to do with how much fore play is involved and how much time you spend at it. Most women take much longer to get their motors running than guys. From start to finish the average woman takes between 30 minutes and two hours. From start to finish the average guy takes between 5 minutes to 20 minutes. So in many cases the guy is done long before the woman even gets started. If your partner is finished in under half an hour then that might be your problem right there.

If the above isn't your problem then there are other things to look at. One is hydration. A lot of people walk around dehydrated and never know it. One sign of dehydration is if you have dark urine. The darker the urine the more dehydrated you probably are. In any case hydrate a lot before sex like any other athletic activity. Hydrate with actual water or something like gator aid. Do not hydrate with coffee, tea, ice tea, root bear, Dr. Pepper, Pepsi, Coke etc even if it's caffeine free. Watch your electrolytes but don't over do the gator aid either as it can cause dryness. Nothing hydrates as well as pure water.

If you've got the top two things covered then you may find that a personal lubricant is the solution. I personally recommend Astroglide. Some people prefer K-Y but I don't because it leaves a residue behind that is like rubber cement. All lubes will leave some sort of residue but I find Astroglide is the least in that department. It tends to be rather expensive so you could go through $2-$3 worth every time you have sex. You can also use aloe. Not something with aloe, actual aloe. I keep several aloe vera plants. they will make it very slippery. Just cut one frond open and scrape out the "jelly" in side and use that. It is very slimy and in fact resembles phlegm (snot). Some people are put off by that and if your partner goes down on you in between he/she might not like the flavor. But it will do the job and will aid in healing any chafing that occurs along the way.

[caring__1]

It's more likely that he is ignoring your primary sex organ... your brain. If he doesn't nurture what goes on in your brain, you'll have a hard time doing it all on your own.

Men and women are different. Though guys can be ready at the drop of a hat, until a woman's brain is in the right place, nothing else works for her. What is he doing to show you that you are special, appreciated and will always be safe in his presence? You need to know you are desired for more than just a receptacle. Ideal foreplay begins hours before a physical encounter. That way, you have time to prepare yourself and get yourself started. It's not like flipping a switch, like it can be with guys.

[Anonymous]

You can use a lub. There are also lubs that have flavour. If you dont get wet maybe he dont excite you enough but thats rare.. Women start having problems gettin wet after 40 and you are under 30 right? I get sooo wet even with just a kiss.

[Josiebaker]

I don’t think your turned on. You get wet when you’re really horny. What does he do before he tries to ram it in?

[AndyOh]

Buy a good natural lube and use it.
Happens that some women don't lubricate as much. Hopefully you will grow out of that and get and stay wet.
Make sure it is a natural lube and not have any of the crap in it.

[Dargil]

Be sure you are properly hydrated.
I prefer moisturizing lotion as personal lube. When you start "dry", she dries out quickly. Lotion seems to "prime the pump" and keep her wetter.

[magiusX26]

wow! everyone responding before me slightly misread. she says an implied after starting she diesn't stay wet enough and said its hurting him not her. the answer is bottled lube unless he is doing something during sex that greatly lowers your arousal which would cause your wetness to decrease in which case you both need to address that/those issue/s. as for getting wetter, have you talked with your Dr/OBgyn about possibly having vaginal dryness? which again the answer comes to artificial lube.

[Arumin_Ian]

Use lube

[Wise4myage]

Longer foreplay? Erotic literature? Maybe see a gyno if this problem persists.

[Tunasub]

8chtoooh... I'll wait..

[dudeinohio]

Use lube

[EnglishEuropean]

You can either use lube or get a hotter boyfriend.

[28ouc]

lube. and tell him to lick it

[savage_barbarian]

lube water based not oil base or find a guy that oozes out massive mounts of precum

[lycanthrope3]

use a water based lube

[MasterKS]

more and more foreplay not just straight bang bang.

[Anonymous]

Have him eat you first for a good long time. If it gets dry tell him to stop and eat some more, or use some lube. If you want him to last for less time, try more foreplay or a position where there is more friction, such as missionary with your legs closed. Also consider stopping when it gets dry and finishing each other in the 69 position.