How do I get my boyfriend to be more spontaneous, I get bored easily and then can’t cum?

[Anonymous]

[bowenw]

You may have to be the instigator when your bored. Also tell him when you're bored and want him to make a move.
Please feel free to PM if you wish.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[IAMNativeson87]

The short answer... act more spontaneously... road head, sex at Wally World, try something you've never tried before...

[Asker]

I am spontaneous. But it seems that doesn’t work. He enjoys it but it does not make him more spontaneous. Sometimes I just wanna be bent over in the kitchen… why does it have to be dark and we’re in bed.

[IAMNativeson87]

Sounds like he's not comfortable and/or lacks confidence. Try complimenting his sexual 'abilities'/prowess more often. Make him feeli like he's tue alpha YOU WANT

[Luckycharms12]

I understand how you feel

[Anonymous]

Initiate it often