How do I get my boyfriend to cum from a bj?

[Anonymous]

I'm 19 and not sure what to do so thought I would ask to see if I can learn. I want to make him cum.

[abc3643]

A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

Also, look into videos for:

A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

[Wise4myage]

Focus on the tip, and stroke him off while you blow him. And look him in the eyes like porn stars do, he will love it.

[Neko911]

Well u must know don't use your teeth. I think the best thing I could tell u is b comfortable and breath out of your nose. Make sure his penis is super wet (even if u have to lick and spit on it) the spit keeps from hurting him. Try slowly licking the tip and flicking your tongue over the hole at the top, then after he starts to enjoy it slowly start to take him n2 your mouth going deeper every time u pull out, but make sure u r using your hand to slowly jerk him off as well. But don't forget to every so often to just pulll out completly and then start to slowly lick each side this way u make sure to get everywhere and it keeps him wet. And if u r feeling daring take each of his testicles n2 your mouth and gently suck on them while slowly stroking his penis or suck him off while gently rubbing them guys love it. Also before u even start 2 blow him, u could start by slowly trailing kisses down from his chest 2 his stomach. And then eventually make it 2 the inside of his thighs, making sure 2 not kiss his penis yet. And as soon as u can hear him panting and getting excited that's when u start 2 take him n your mouth. But male sure you get his anticipation high and make him want u, And make him need u 2 touch him. Lol just message me if u need more help

[linguinesoup]

Not even the one who asked but I’m taking it to heart lmao

[Neko911]

@linguinesoup lol I used 2 love giving my now ex head. So I did everything 2 learn how 2 b amazing at it since I knew he loved getting oral

[Seppel]

Wow I guess that's a realy great explanation 👍👍

[AmandaYVR]

The Better Blowjob: A How-to Guide [Part 1]

[Bricealan]

keep on 'suckin'

[Adam_West]

you don't need to do anything special. cum with blowjob must be the easiest thing

[Seppel]

I agree

[Anonymous]

Use tongue, make it sloppy. Every now and then deepthroat it and gag on it a bit. Twirl your tongue around the head and apply suction on the shaft while using one hand or both. Start slower, lick it a bit and afterwards make it faster. It has to be fun for you, otherwise it's just torture for both of you. If I'm not in the mood for it I usually perform worse.

[Anonymous]

Just suck