We have been together for over a year now and I am getting annoyed by how little sex we have. It is barely once a week, and it’s a short session (max 15mins). I have brought it up once but nothing changed. How do I make him want more sex? My aim is at least 3 times a week or more, depending on the duration.
You need to make it fun and make it something he looks forward to, and you do that by talking about it to him well in advance. If he's leaving for work in the morning, tell him "I'm already missing your touch on my body. I can't wait until tonight when you come home and ravish me!" or something to that effect. Give him something to think about throughout the day, so that he's excited to come home and be with you. And when he does something you like, something that feels good, etc., give him positive feedback and encouragement. You will get so much better results with positive feedback than you will complaining that you don't get enough sex.
Maybe ask if he has a fantasy or a fetish. Maybe he'd love to see you in high heels, or maybe a cheerleader uniform, or in a wig with different color hair. If he knows you are open to trying things to please him, it's likely to increase his desire and enthusiasm.
Finally, if he's in a stressful situation - if work is really hard, or if he has family problems, or money problems, or whatever, then that's likely why he's not so into sex. Stress tends to kill libido in most men, so if stress is the issue, than anything you can do to reduce his stress will likely increase his libido.
So many things in life are about expectations. When yours and his are perfectly aligned, life is good. When they're not, it can be stressful.
Is this a question of him never initiating? When you initiate, does he reject your advances? Does he have a problem with finishing prematurely? More frequent sex will help his stamina. Is he stressed about his performance and avoiding the encounter?
Give it some serious thought. If you decide his sex drive isn't as robust as yours, there's nothing you can do. You might get what you want for a time, but he will always fall back to low drive. Over the months and years, it will be a source of frustration in your relationship. Or worse.
Bring home a 3rd person to play with. If that doesn’t get him interested at least you will have someone ready to go for you.
Watch swinger porn with him and tell him how much you like it.
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If he doesn't want more sex, especially as a young guy, it's either because he's nervous about his sexual performance, he has some kind of unusually low sex drive, or he's not really sexually attracted to you and doesn't say it.
U can't make him want more sex did he explain why u guys don't have it more
Of course I can make him want more, there must be something i can do to increase his drive. He mentioned that he lacks the right atmosphere for sex. But he doesn’t do anything to create it…
Lol if u think that I see why you even in this situation u think u can increase his sex drive if this is simply what it is 🤣🤣🤣
If he states a lack of atmosphere but does nothing on his end to change that clearly he dont view it as a problem
You asked and he answered. You can accept it or find a more energetic partner.
You 2 are sexually incompatible.
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