We have been together for over a year now and I am getting annoyed by how little sex we have. It is barely once a week, and it’s a short session (max 15mins). I have brought it up once but nothing changed. How do I make him want more sex? My aim is at least 3 times a week or more, depending on the duration.
You need to make it fun and make it something he looks forward to, and you do that by talking about it to him well in advance. If he's leaving for work in the morning, tell him "I'm already missing your touch on my body. I can't wait until tonight when you come home and ravish me!" or something to that effect. Give him something to think about throughout the day, so that he's excited to come home and be with you. And when he does something you like, something that feels good, etc., give him positive feedback and encouragement. You will get so much better results with positive feedback than you will complaining that you don't get enough sex.
Maybe ask if he has a fantasy or a fetish. Maybe he'd love to see you in high heels, or maybe a cheerleader uniform, or in a wig with different color hair. If he knows you are open to trying things to please him, it's likely to increase his desire and enthusiasm.
Finally, if he's in a stressful situation - if work is really hard, or if he has family problems, or money problems, or whatever, then that's likely why he's not so into sex. Stress tends to kill libido in most men, so if stress is the issue, than anything you can do to reduce his stress will likely increase his libido.
So many things in life are about expectations. When yours and his are perfectly aligned, life is good. When they're not, it can be stressful.
Is this a question of him never initiating? When you initiate, does he reject your advances? Does he have a problem with finishing prematurely? More frequent sex will help his stamina. Is he stressed about his performance and avoiding the encounter?
Give it some serious thought. If you decide his sex drive isn't as robust as yours, there's nothing you can do. You might get what you want for a time, but he will always fall back to low drive. Over the months and years, it will be a source of frustration in your relationship. Or worse.
Bring home a 3rd person to play with. If that doesn’t get him interested at least you will have someone ready to go for you.
Watch swinger porn with him and tell him how much you like it.
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U can't make him want more sex did he explain why u guys don't have it more
Of course I can make him want more, there must be something i can do to increase his drive. He mentioned that he lacks the right atmosphere for sex. But he doesn’t do anything to create it…
Lol if u think that I see why you even in this situation u think u can increase his sex drive if this is simply what it is 🤣🤣🤣
If he states a lack of atmosphere but does nothing on his end to change that clearly he dont view it as a problem
You asked and he answered. You can accept it or find a more energetic partner.
If he doesn't want more sex, especially as a young guy, it's either because he's nervous about his sexual performance, he has some kind of unusually low sex drive, or he's not really sexually attracted to you and doesn't say it.
You 2 are sexually incompatible.
stand naked infront of him as much as you can and even take over and be a little forceful see if he can stand not to have you then.. talk to him and let him know how much it means to you and the feelings you have when he is near you.. and you can just sit on his face.. wish i had a woman that was like that in my life now.. good luck
what is his job?
general speaking , people who work too much , combined with stress caused by their job , can greatly affect their sex drive
How do these sexless men even get women? That is the real question. What man says no to sex? Unless he has a very low sex drive, then you have to accept that, or move in from him.
Damn sounds like you have a high sex drive and his is non existent. Try switching things up and surprising him from something out of the ordinary. If you need ideas DM is always open
What are you doing differently to make this happen?
ask him why does he do that? if he cums early try to improve that
My boyfriend is the opposite
Grab his butt and boy bits as often as possible. We lads love when our ladies rub us the RIGHT (randy) way !!!
I think you can't change it
Try some kinky stuff... try to seduce him
I’m sorry to hear that because u deserve more. U must have a high sex drive?
I don’t think I have a too high sex drive, i would say wanting it 3-4 times a week is average, no?
Ahh ha no. 1-2 times a week would b normal maybe. Lol. Everyone has their own opinion on what is normal. Lol.
He has low sex drive, so suggest him to get medication, and Testosterone injections
Bri g a female friend into it
Never force a man for sex. It's harmful
Turn him on more!!
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