How do I get my boyfriend to tease me sexually?

[rubiom]

My boyfriend and I have good sex, i just wish he would be more adventurous while teasing me. How can i get him to do this?

[Crossroads-USMC]

I tease girls in foreplay a lot. Its just makes for a better orgasm, (for her). But the best way to get him to go it, would be One - to tease him in some similar way you would like, so he can see how beneficial it'll be. And Two -Let him see you doing it to yourself. Beside being sexy as hell, watching you get off by touching yourself with show him A) How much you like it. B) What, where, and how you like it. And C) If you do it until you cum in front of him, he will have a guaranteed way to get you off. That'll be one more option in his arsenal of strategies to get you to cum. And THAT should be every guy's goal - to get YOU off, and have you cum as many times, to cum as hard as possible, and to be 100%, completely sexually satisfied. I am always looking for ways to make girls cum faster, harder, and more frequent. Each girl is different, And REAL men need to step up, and make sure she gets off really good.

[Peter0]

Talk talk talk talk!

Outside of bed. ... and perhaps be ready to describe a scenario (with as much or as little detail as you want..."so I'm imagining we go out to eat at XYZ and we sit next to each other and you keep a hand on my thigh the entire evening,...", "you tie me to the bed and keep taking the vibrator away from me as I'm about to cum. After 10 times..." etc)

Good luck!

[AustinMan]

Now this is great advice. Share your fantasies with each other and then role play them. I'm putting an article on My Takes re role play sex in the next day or so. I encourage you to take a look. Basically, pick a fantasy you both like and come up with a scenario that describes your roles and a bit about the back story. Hopefully, you'll both dive headlong into your roles and have a great time. The hottest sex I've ever had has been role play sex.

[kaylaS91]

Just tell him that's what you want and would really enjoy. Most guys seem to be very willing to please their partner in bed, so mentioning that to him almost guarantees he'll give it a try.

It's amazing how well some can pick up on those things. I made a comment that something sounds really hot when telling my guy about something I had previously read. A few hours later while in bed and messing around, he did the exact same thing!
Good communication is key. :)

[Telisha]

Sit him down and let him know that u need more foreplay from him... tell him to make u crave the dick like u make him crave for your pussy... just my opinion tho

[zombiebabe]

just be honest and tell him what you really need in bed

[AustinMan]

I commented below. It may just be a matter of giving him a scenario and a role.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Tell him that you need a lot of foreplay.

[BertMacklinFBI]

do it to him in a way he will reciprocate.

[ND4SPD31]

Ha, if I could only trade him! Haha, the things I could teach him to do to you! Hehe. :-)