How do I get my girlfriend to try swallowing after bj?

I had girlfriends swallow when they gave head but my girlfriend now won't try to do it. She said she might throw up. Any advice?
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  • You can't really force someone to go beyond their boundaries. At best you can talk about it, and ask why and such.
    But forcing it won't do you any good.

    Personally, I don't want to receive it in my mouth, I just cannot.
    Most guys have been respectful about it and it has been really comforting and makes it easier to trust them.
    However, when I've felt a guy has wanted to push on the subject, I've felt like I couldn't feel at ease with them and couldn't fully trust them when giving them a BJ, which made it super uncomfortable for me to give them one.

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  • Respect her boundary or you won't have a girlfriend for much longer.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Try to get her to take baby steps. If you cum on her boobs put a tiny bit on your finger tip for her to lick off. If she's okay with it try a little more each time. Work towards her being able to swallow one squirt directly into her mouth with the rest going on her boobs. Keep practicing until she can manage swallowing the full load. If she simply can't handle it, don't mention it again and don't pressure her.

  • If she's not willing to do it it's not really something you're going to be able to change, maybe you could swallow your own and show her that it's ok.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes, find another girl that likes it.

    You are trying to fit a round peg in a square hole.

  • Tell her you want to see her swallow. When she does do something nice for her

    • In my case, it has evolved into, “this is how I get 💩…what I want…without argument”. Start with flowers…move to sexy clothes where you also get a Return.-less stressful for her (daisy dukes). Frequency of 💋🍆 increases…what can I do for you…that you would enjoy?-be prepared for her to go through 300.00usd. L’Occitane in my case. —Actually, now I keep a bank bag full of cash in it and she can earn as much as she wants. Learned after fact, she will still cut me off if I don’t “do nice” for her. Forgot woman 👩🏻.., not really about the cash 💵

  • Do it with her. My girlfriend and I kiss after a blowjob , she gives some to me and we both have a taste.

  • Don’t try to make her. Things need to be enjoyable for both partners.

  • Don't ask her to swallow, tell her she can spit.

  • Count your blessing she telling you right off the bat that she ain't relationship material. You're only going to be seen as a shallow pig if you try to change her mind. Better off just dumping her and finding a normal girl that swallows