How do I get rid of my urges for sexual intimacy?

It's so frustrating that I want to be kissed and touched but I know I'm going to die alone. I'm just so tired of being sexually frustrated.
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  • About the only drug that has shown ANY hope at killing sex urges is a "GnRH agonist". This will help curb the pituitary from making hormones in the body.
    I would think this should be considered ONLY in dire circumstances.
    Another possibility is that you have Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD).
    A joint meeting of yourself, your medical doctor and a counselor is in order.

  • Get a male sex robot.

    They'll be here soon if they're not already in your local shops.

    • I hope they have customization options. The ones I've seen online aren't even cute

    • Calling BS. A robot won’t provide intamacy.

    • @Jackson8650 no but it's better than nothing

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  • Have you thought about, I don't know, lowering your standards?
    There's someone for everyone.

    • When did I ever say that I had standards? This post isn't about dating

    • You think you'll die alone. You're telling me there is no guy out there for you, not even one in a wheelchair?

    • Probably not, but I'm not going to look, so by default, yes, I will die alone

  • A dildo will help.

    • How?

  • How? Look at an ugly guy or girl. i mean hideous. or take a cold shower.

    • What do cold showers do

  • I think your problem is not sexual urges but being single. Why are you not letting anyone in your life.

    • Sexual urges are the problem

    • Did u try masturbating

    • Of course, it doesn't feel good. That's why I'm so sexually frustrated

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  • You're female, meaning you can find a guy. It isn't hard. He may not be Prince Eric or whatever, but many guys will have sex with practically any female.

    • I don't want casual sex

    • ... There's no such thing as "casual sex." There is sex and there is not-sex. That's all. And why are you talking about sexual frustration then if you don't want to have sex? I'm not understanding.

    • I was seeing if there were any ideas for how I could get rid of it, like pills or something

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  • Masturbation is the loneliest way of loving someone

    • What's your point

    • That's how lonely guys tend to cope is what I'm saying. I agree actually with an earlier opinion. Take up a new sport or hobby that might get you mingling with other available people.

    • I don't think that's what he meant. I think he meant that it would just be another way to release pent up energy

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  • I understand how you feel I haven't had sex in over a year

  • Don't be stupid... you're how old? You're not going without sex the rest of your life unless you're completely hideous and disgusting. Is that the case?

    • Yes, that is case

    • I don't believe you.

    • And why is that?

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  • Masturbation for one.

    • Do you have any suggestions that might actually work?

    • Look, Humans are social creatures, and like all animals, the drive to mate and breed are very strong and baked into our genes. So unless you are one of those folks who for some reason doesn't feel that urge, it's there. Some psychotropic medications affect it, almost like it has something to do with brain-chemistry! Other than that, burning the energy, and relieving the sexual tension - working out, masturbating that kind of thing. And don't focus on the issue - that will bring it to the fore of your attention and encourage dwelling on it, not helpful.

  • Any woman can get laid any time she wants.

    • I don't want to get "laid" I want intimacy, to be intimate with someone that I care about that cares about me

  • Stop thinking about it.

  • We all have our own fate

    • What's that supposed to mean

    • You want a new partner

    • Like I said, I'm going to die alone

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  • You just need to find a nice thick huge cock to pound you for hours! (;

    • I don't know

    • Why don’t you know? 😂

    • I don't know if that's the solution

  • Anti depressants shuts that shit right off.

  • Have you tried masturbation?

    • Yes.

    • I know it's not the same as with a man , but how is that going?

    • I don't know what it's like to be with anyone but it doesn't help since it doesn't feel good

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  • Work out. Get into contact sports

  • Why would you die alone? Is it a religious commandment or something?

    • No, I'm going to die alone because it's rare for me to be attracted to someone and no one has ever been attracted to me

    • Well... I'm attracted to you 😘 So, you're half way there 😉

    • Like I said, no one has ever been attracted to me so I'm going to die alone

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  • Masturbation?

    • It doesn't feel good

    • Have you tried a vibrator?

    • No, I don't have the money for that

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