How do I get sex dreams more frequently?

It only happens once in a very long time and when it does it's actually worth the long wait lol

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  • Sexual dreams occur most frequently among those who aren’t sexually active.

    Research has shown that men (or boys) who do not masturbate or engage in any form of sexual activity reported more frequent wet dreams [sexual dreams that end with orgasm and ejaculation (or secretion of vaginal fluids)] This is the body’s way of releasing older sperm that otherwise isn’t realised through frequent orgasm during one’s waking life (for men).

    While masturbation and sex can’t fully stop sexual dreams from happening, it surely can reduce the number that one experiences.

    Studies have shown that the lack of sexual release in your waking life can lead to sexual dreams, as your body knows when you need a sexual release and those dreams serve to satisfy those sexual impulses (4% reported orgasm during such dreams). If you have been abstaining from sexual activity lately or have been craving sexual release, you may be more likely to experience sexual dreams.

    • I’m sorry, I read as “why do I get sexual dreams more frequently”. To answer the “how” question, science has shown that sleeping on your stomach increases the odds of someone experiencing sexual dreams (and of course scary ones too). Abstaining from all forms of sexual activity can also increase the frequency of these dreams (as long as you do not get sexual release in your waking life). I’ve heard that watching porn before bed (again, without release) may lead to involuntary sexual release through wet dreams.

    • I do heard sleeping on your stomach may increase the chances of having sex dreams and I actually never believed in it but I've never got to try it either but thank you for answering I can tell by how you're talking that you're quite well experienced in this

    • Well I’ve had my fair share of “experimentation” over the years 😂My sky high sex drive is to blame. Hope it works for you but abstaining from sexual activity for awhile is your best bet

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  • On the complete opposite all I would have to do is talk with you and the next thing I know I'm going to have a dream about you it's the most weirdest thing ever and I mean they become very intense and very real I mean that's how it works for me I don't know if there's anything that I'm actually doing to make it happen because I mean I can tell tell you what I think it is the triggers it for me but I'm not 100% for sure

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  • Maybe watching more porn will make it happen :)

    How do I get sex dreams more frequently?
    • I don't really find watching porn enjoyable. I don't think I ever found my exact taste there. A lot of people doesn't find it enjoyable either and I understand their reasons haha

    • I am not a psychologist but I think the answer to your question is intertwined with your reply to my comment.

    • I'm a little confused..

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  • You don't find them frustrating and disappointing?

    • As long as it's with the person I'm fantasizing about. But I get it, It could become absurd and frustrating when it's happening way too often

  • I guess women are probably better at responding to this. Men are constantly thinking about sex. Explains why I wake up with a hard on every morning lol.

    Maybe watch erotic pornography with an actual storyline that makes it plausible. Or think about guys you are attracted to and think about them in bed before you fall asleep?

  • Your sex dreams must be way better than mine! All of my sexual dreams are frustrating.

  • Probably cause you're Spanish.

    Spanish girls are horny.

  • watch porn everyday ,

    • right? works for me ;)

    • @bananathunder right. I was 19 when I addicted to it , but funny thing, in my dream , I turned into lesbian. 😭 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @darline19 oh no... did you wake up as one too? lol

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  • Read something erotic before you go to sleep. Having erotic conversation with someone, someone like myself lol

  • Consider reading some steamy erotica.

  • I totally get how you feel, and you can't really. One trick I've found works for me, is you have to be thinking about it right as you're falling asleep. However, you can't be thinking about it deliberately because you want to dream about it. It kind of just happens on its own without you thinking about it. I've also had it happened a few times after falling asleep right after watching porn, but most of the time it just happens on its own when I don't expect it. The only other thing I could suggest is when you're feeling sleepy, put some porn on in the background. Your sleeping brain will still be able to process that it's there and manifest it into the form a dream. Good luck. :)

    • Thank you 😉

    • You're welcome. Lemme know if it works😉 Basically the trick is, you have to not be doing it deliberately to achieve a dream, because it's like your brain knows you're trying to do it, and deliberately doesn't give you the dream😂 But anyways, tell me when you have one 😉

  • Well, why not just have them when you want them? If you really want them, then you will be having them. 🥰

    • I wished it could be that easy

    • A few years ago when I was playing video games too much, I was controlling my dreams. I knew it was a dream. At that time I was having dreams about my intercourse with many people. But now it is not.

  • Maybe thats a good thing because if you have a lot it's kinda boring but if you want some more maybe watch a little porn before going to sleep or read a erotic story.

  • Watch porn

  • Can you control your dreams? Does watching porn before bed help? Or thinking about it as you start to fall asleep?

  • I think reading erotica before bed is more likely to stimulate a good sex dream.

    • I'm looking forward to try it! ;) thanks for the recommendation

  • watch porn before you go to bed

    • I don't really enjoy watching porn it doesn't turn me on (only occasionally if it does) but it depends on each person

    • maybe try to find porn of a normal person or couple? Not the fake acting stuff

  • Nice question. I would be interested in knowing too. Tell your self of what kind of dream you want to see every night right before going to bed. Use positive affirmations.

  • If you figure it out, please let me know

  • Think about it as you fall to sleep