Hi, I’m not very experienced in giving a guy head my first time I was forced into it ans I didn’t like it the next couple times, I just don’t get enthusiastic. I’m very shy in terms of sex. I get nervous because I don’t know what I’m doing then to prevent the discomfort I try to avoid it but that isn’t the best thing to do because I don’t want to just be about my pleasure
*Concentrate mouth play on the head (glans). The shaft wants to be stroked.
*Bob and suck it to just below the ridge (corona). The shaft won't feel it much.
*You can alternate to suckling it like an infant on a pacifier rather than bobbing.
*You can tease the glans by swirling your tongue around it and probing the little hole.
*Avoid scratching the head with your teeth. It can break his momentum.
*Stroke his penis with one hand while you suck. Do it with two fingers on the top and your thumb on the rounded "vein" on the underside. Stroking this way induces the prostate to engorge and ejaculate. Stroke rapidly (but not frantically) with a moderate grip.
*Use your other hand to cup and kneed his sack.
*Always build sexual tension. Do not pause or slow down because he can lose his momentum and even kill the blowie altogether.
*When he begins to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion on the glans (it will distract him) while he ejaculates and just straight suck only.
*Also while he ejaculates, continue to stroke more slowly until he is finished. It will coax out the later squirts.
*Then Continue to straight suck with no mouth motion until he drains and unplugs.
Works for me
Thanks, I know it’s different for different people I just wanted some tips on what I could incorporate.
I like when my girl flicks my dick hole with the tip of her tongue, and some times when dick is in her mouth she wiggles her tongue against it that's good too. Most of the sensitivity is in the head and while it does feel good when she goes deep and it hits her throat, that's not necessarily, you can just suck the tip like a lollipop.
Maybe come in from the side with you lips on it then licker it, like move9ng back and forth with your tongue and upper lip sliding on it.
The random unnecessary sleep sound is nice sometimes.
Honestly it's on him to say what he likes just like it's on women to tell us what they think feels good, like sometimes I think I'm a little desensitized so I asked her to try a little teeth. I kind of liked it, I'm sure most guys wouldn't but oh well.
Sometimes you've got to just throw mud at the wall and see what sticks you know?
Like when I'm fingering I try all sorts of motions, patterns and different things with my fingers, I pay attention to what makes her squirm, gasp or say "oh fuck"
You might try 10,15,20 slightly different things before you notice what he really likes the feel of.
Oh and some attention to his balls could help, you could link or suck them, or if you don't want to do that just massage them a bit.
I don't know you'll figure it out, just don't be afraid to try things, there's no 1 right way to please everyone, we all like it a little different. And it's basiclly trial and error to find out.
The tongue in the dick hole is the best!!
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this may be out of your comfort zone, but some porn movies might help, or look it up on youtube.
There are some instructional videos out there or just google it.
That way you can watch them when you wish.
everyone is different on what they like, so just start with the basics, and add from there.
First, don’t do anything you don’t want to do. If you want to do it but are nervous, explain to the guy that unfortunately you had been forced/assaulted the first time and you don’t want him doing anything rough or trying to take control. You can wrap your hand around the base of his shaft if you are worried about him getting too deep into your throat. Basically, do some things that might help you relax and enjoy the experience. If you have a good experience with it your guy is more apt to enjoy it too.
Thank you, with the comfort thing I guess I just gotta figure out how to get out of my head.
The best advice I can give you is to not force yourself to take more than you can do comfortably. If you can't fit an entire throbbing cock down your throat; don't even try. Use lots of kissing, licking, spit, stroking, ball play, and gentle suction.
A great BJ is about having fun and worshipping his cock with your mouth.
Just remember the head is the most sensitive part. And let him cum in your mouth. If you want to try deep throat hold your breath and tilt your head back
First... you sound like traumatised. Try to get help about "being forced".
Otherwise that negative feeling will keep shutting you down mentally everytime you try to enjoy the whole act.
You need a strong handed daddy like me to show you.
I can't tell you, I need to direct you in person. the ONLY WAY
Don't use teeth, feel free to lick, take as deep in your mouth as possible, move towards him and back in fast motion, when you get tired, mix in a handjob or do both. Don't rush. If your mouth gets sore, jack him off.
Pay attention to the balls too
early in the blowjob tell him to make sure he cums in your mouth because you want to swallow ALL of his cum. After that you can't do anything but win. After you do that you could stab him with a steak knife and it'd still feel great.
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