How do I give a good blowjob?

My boyfriend NEVER asks me for blowjobs and I know it’s because he thinks I’m bad at it because to be honest I’m not the best. Since I’m pregnant as well I’d well like my mouth is dry. I’m not offended he dosent ask but I know he would want me to but I’m just not good at it? I also just don’t wanna keep sucking for however long I get insecure in doing it wrong?

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When I’m drunk I’ve been told I’m really good probably because I’m more confident but obviously I haven’t drank since being pregnant and I just get nervous to do it
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  • 1) learn from someone, watch porn if you have too. Just do research to figure out the best techniques. You would ask a million random a in a app, while you can actually search on the internet, listen to podcast, watch videos. Effort is half the batter.
    2) speaking of effort, actually act like you enjoy being down there and pleasing him. The thing that turns men on the most about BJs is the fact that you actually want to please and you are excited to be able to do that. Nothing making a dick shrink or not asked to give oral like someone who is lazy or doesn’t care about trying to make him feel like he is shit for expecting you to do your job.
    3) attitude and mindset through out the day is huge, turn him on by texting him stuff like that throughout the day. And KEEP YOUR WORD. I don’t know how many times I’ve been told “I’m going to suck your dick tonight.” And it doesn’t happen. That’s the quickest way to get your ass fired from the girlfriend position.
    4) important to be adventurous and follow what he wants you to do. If he wants to do anything or have you do anything, it’s all about him in that moment even if you don’t like it. Because trust me he definitely does stuff he doesn’t want to do for you to be happy, you need to keep that same energy. Or it won’t work.


    You follow those things, you will be on your way to giving a great BJ.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Rather than a long "how to", here are some suggestions.
    *Begin with a gentle erotic massage to get him hard and wet. Starting out straight to a BJ can be long and grueling. Make him ready for the main event first.
    *Always build sexual tension; never stopping or pausing. He can easily lose momentum.
    *The best BJ is stroke and suck. Concentrate your mouth at the glans (head). Bobbing and sucking are good, so is suckling like am infant with a pacifier. Stroke the shaft, partially compressing the "vein" underneath. Going way down on him with your mouth is a waste of motion and we don't feel much below the glans.
    *The closer he is to orgasm (thrusting, deep breathing) the faster you bob and stroke.
    *When ejaculation begins, cease all mouth motion and just suck only while you stroke vigorously through the last squirt.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I used to overthink and get nervous especially if he made eye contact I would get him with my teeth it would hurt but I learnt to stop overthinking and I just went with the flow and it ended up becoming natural.

    I mostly focused on the head with sucking while I would use my hand to stroke the shaft and tease the balls.

    • you got it that's the way to do it

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why not communicate with him what he likes and should try ivwr just assuming your bad

  • Porn will teach you this for free

  • Get a tongue ring, it not only helps, it is sexy to look at.

    It's really about the visual of the female giving us the BJ. If she looks sexy to us in our minds, we're gonna want her to be down there suckin away while we look down at her

  • Just make sure to swallow at the end, he’ll be happy

  • practice

  • Ask him to talk you through how he likes them

  • Just go for it. He will love it now

  • Practice practice practice, if you swallow you don't have to be good at blow jobs

  • Normal. Some women don't like dicks

  • I assume he was the one that asked you out

  • I love it when a girl twists her hand up and down as she’s doing it. Also, like having my balls sucked too. It feels amazing. And also when she flicks it on her tongue, turns me on even more