How do I give a good blowjob without gagging?

My current boyfriend likes blowjobs. I have never been able to do this easily without gagging. Are there any suggestions?

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  • Never given one, so I won’t be much help, haha. But from being on the receiving end, I wouldn’t be overly concerned with how deep you can take it in. It’s a cool trick if you can do it, but I’ve had it done, and it’s fine, but I can live without it just fine.

    For me, most of the sensation occurs in the first couple inches at the top, I don't really get pleasure from action at the base.

    Now, I’d say I DO get additional pleasurable sensations from a longer stroke, but if my lady just has like her fist to her mouth, if her hand is slicked up, that length of stroke is very reasonably replicated, and I might even argue the natural ridges between her individual fingers give an additionally good feeling, plus you can incorporate a loose-grip twisting action.

    I guess one caveat is that I’m circumcised, so this is what works for me. I’ve seen uncircumcised dudes in pornos seemingly getting their foreskin slid up and down, which I can’t speak on, so you’d want an uncut dude’s opinion on that if that’s your particular situation.

    But yeah, overall, if you’re gagging, my assumption is that you’re hitting the back of your throat and triggering your gag reflex. That’s kind of my off-ramp for where I can give you advice, but from a guy’s perspective, I can take or leave deepthroating, and even just the attempt to take in more than what’s comfortable. Like if you can take your thumb in your mouth, that’s really all you need, your hands can pick up the slack. If he wants more, just explain your current limit. Maybe you’ll grow more accustomed, maybe you won’t. Most of us are just thrilled to be getting blown, lmao. If he gets pissy about your limits, find a more respectful boyfriend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Practice. And watch blowjob porn, if you're okay with looking at porn. I'm bisexual, love sucking dick, and I've been told I've got some pretty solid head-game. I didn't get to suck my first dick until I was in my early twenties. But, since I watched plenty of porn showing guy's being sucked off, I kind of naturally found myself feeling good about the cock in my mouth.

    So ya, watch blowjob porn, and practice sucking dick. Use a dildo or if you & your boyfriend want (I'm sure he'll be super excited) but ask him if you can practice your cocksucking skills on him.

    Most importantly, have fun sucking dick and be honest with yourself about it- I

Most Helpful Girls

  • Go really slow and pay attention to the tip of his D

    Touch his balls gently

    Spit on it (make sure he's watching)

    Don't go all the way and don't go hard on yourself it's never like in porn

    Just enjoy making out with his D

    Lock eye contact

    And run your nail on his thighs 😉

    • Solid tips

    • damn thats good. when a girl makes out with ur D its hella fun haha. do you like it or just for him?

    • @MarkyMark77 just him Cuz I get turned on by his phormones coming from his crotch which make me take my time with it

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  • i don't know why young girls feel compelled to give deep throat all the time... you can give a sensous blowjobs which consists of sucking kissing and licking the head... hence the name giving head

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  • Go slow and eat popsicles snd train with them! It will feel much better helping you gag and not irritate your throat!

  • Squeeze your thumb hard. I don't know why but it works.

  • Is he face fucking you?

  • Practice makes perfect so practice, practice, practice.

  • Don't put him too far in your mouth. Tongue matters more anyway.

  • I've had the most success in avoiding the gag reflex, as well as bringing the guy to climax by kneeeling in front of him and simply bobbing up and down on his erect penis and suctioning my lips around his cock. Maintaining a consistent stroke repetition helps me prevent gagging.

  • 1. He should allow you to take control. You will not gag yourself.
    2. Most people can learn to suppress their gag reflex with just a little practice. If you want to be able to take all of him, get a silicone dildo at least as long as he is, and practice with it.

    You are a very good girlfriend to care about this. He's a lucky man.

  • You don't have to take the penis so deep in your mouth. The most sensitive part is the tip, and around the tip. Next time, just take the tip in your mouth and lick it with your tongue while you stroke it up and down with your hand. He'll enjoy it, and you won't gag.

  • Form your mouth into a puckered kiss. Take his glans between your lips and suckle on it like on a pacifier. Part your teeth enough to let your tongue through to tease the slot and frenulum. Stroke his shaft while you do this. When he ejaculates, you can block it with your tongue and then spit, so you don't choke or gag. Do not let his penis into your mouth on top of your tongue or into your throat.

    What is best for a blowjob is that the rim of his penis (corona) passes through your puckered lips while you suckle.

  • some people just have a very high gag reflex, so you may not be able to be able to get over it.
    It's just how some people are wired.

  • Practice with Popsicles.

  • I have a small cock so not so much of an issue for my OH

  • If you can't do it without gagging than just do it with gagging, or don't try to deep throat him.

    Don't ever force yourself to do something sexual that you aren't able to do comfortably.

  • Only take it as far as you can without gagging. Keep one hand around your mouth to control the depth. Also try practicing with a toy.

  • It’s very challenging but lots of practice and relaxing your jaw and neck is the key tho

  • Concentrate on the head of his penis and hold his penis so he can’t go deeper without you letting him. 👍🙂

  • Gagging is the best part from a man's pov

    • Says you.

  • Keep your tongue out of the way. The reason you gag, is the tongue. So, if you can keep it out of the way while DTing him, or whatever, you should be able to go pretty deep. Not sure what the best way to keep it out of the way is but, that's what youd need to do

  • If you are gagging because you are trying to deep throat. Only take what you can comfortably without gagging. He will still like the BJ!

  • gag through it, remember to slurp and keep suction

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