How do I give a good strip tease/lap dance?

[Anonymous]

For my boyfriend's birthday i want to give him a surprise lap dance and strip tease. However I've never done one before and have some questions
1. How long should one last
2. What should I wear and in what order should I take it off
3. What are some good moves to do to turn him on
4. How do I transition from the lap dance to a BJ/HJ

[bowenw]

Watch some movies featuring stripping. There are a lot out there. Most last 3-5 minutes. You can probably find some outfits intended for strippers online or at a sex shop. If not, just wear something sexy that is easy for you to remove, e. g. not tight jeans. Once you are totally naked or in your underwear move onto sitting on his lap. Grind on him for a few minutes. Face him and undress him. He should be good and hard after a routine like that. Then move onto a HJ then BJ. Be sure to tell him you want him to cum into your mouth if that's okay with you so he doesn't have to worry about whether or not he should pull out when he cums. Keep stroking and licking until he finishes cumming, not just after the first squirt. If it's in your mouth swallow it or dribble it onto your boobs. After he desensitizes and starts getting soft, pull on the shaft from the base to the tip a few times to get the last drops of cum out. Lick them off or clean them off with a tissue.

[AustinMan]

I admire your desire to please him. Stripping is a lot harder to be sexy about than most women realize. You might be better off surprising him with a really trashy little nothing lingerie and stiletto pumps (no platform).

[Asker]

I figured but I really want to try stripping for him

[AustinMan]

Then I suggest you consult heavily with Mr. Google and practice in front of a mirror.

[Asker]

Ok that's what I was planning and was going to practice with some of my girl friends

[AustinMan]

Sounds like you have a handle on it. There are other ways to tempt him if this doesn't look like it's going to work. Just ping me back if I can help.

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure this will work but what are you suggestions to tempt him?

[AustinMan]

Are you submissive sexually? My ideas assume that. I'm very dominant.

[Asker]

Yes I am

[AustinMan]

Follow me and ping me. I'd rather do this on DM.

[Asker]

Ok followed

[Mikelaughs]

There are many ways to go about this !
Dm me if you need suggestions !

[Asker]

Ok I followed you

[Alexandrubaschet08]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BMwcO6_hyA

Get som inspiration from this video.
Dres how he like, something more serios not just the bra and panttys.
Take in what order you want, depend what you want to show first.
Think at a coregraphy, i will sugest to last a couple of minutes, 5 min, maximum 15min.
You can go for BJ or HJ in the time you make the dance and you are close to him or afther when the show end

[Wise4myage]

Buy some new lingerie that you know he will love and play music in the background that makes you feel sexy. Also, you can find lots of porn on this subject as well. Don't give him head till your totally naked, but stroke him off any time just to tease him.

[Asker]

Thanks what should I wear over the lingerie?

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome. Something simple like a tank top or t-shirt. As for duration, I say 15-20 minutes is enough. The poor guy will be out of his mind by that time, lol.

[Asker]

Ok and what do you think for bottoms? Jeans? Leggings? Shorts?

[Wise4myage]

Lacy see through panties.

[Asker]

I mean over that I want to strip for him too

[Wise4myage]

Leggings or sexy shorts.

[Asker]

Ok and what do you think sexy shorts would be?

[Wise4myage]

Tight ones, that show off your nice ass.

[Asker]

Ok Do you have any other tips?

[Wise4myage]

Can you pm me?

[Asker]

Followed

[Valnac]

I suggest you go to a strip club, that’s not unusual.

[Flakey-Flake]

YouTube it