How do I handle pressure from my boyfriend and wanting to cum in me?

He says we are a couple and he should go bare now.
How do I handle pressure from my boyfriend and wanting to cum in me?
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  • Just let him. He's hot

  • Skin to skin is the best

    • You think I should?

    • Feels amazing with super close. Different sensation

  • Get a new boyfriend unless you are ready to be a mom

  • If you don't want to go without a condom don't.

  • Cum in him first. He'll never see it coming.

  • DO NOT let this dude get you knocked up

  • What do you want to do?

    • Not sure I want to keep him happy

    • Okay then another question, are you on birth control?

    • Not now but could

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  • Being pressured about anything can be a red flag and harbinger of things to come in the relationship.
    It's your body so you make the rules. If he doesn't respect that he may need to find someone that's okay with it.
    If you're okay with him cumming inside you be sure you're on BC, that he's been tested for STD, and he isn't cheating. Also be sure he knows there's still a risk of you becoming pregnant so he should be ready to step up and be a dad if that happens.

  • birth control

  • If you don't want to risk pregnancy, ask him if he cares about you in any way at all? Because that's just 100% selfish. You can follow that up with "what are you wanting or going to do when I get pregnant?"

    • In this situation, YOU need to protect yourself and your body because he's not going to. Please don't do this just for him (ie "to make him happy"). He's fine. You hear about women getting pregnant and then the guy leaving her high and dry. Not saying he would, but do you want to take that chance?

  • The best way would be by dumping him. He's not entitled to that and it's worrying he would believe that he is. It's your body. And being in a relationship doesn't magically stop the spread of disease or prevent unplanned pregnancy.

  • Vanderquack is a cantankerous cunt eater don’t listen to her. An IUD is even more effective than condoms, consider getting one. If you aren’t comfortable with that or BC then simply say no, it’s too risky. Unless ofc you are ready for children? Could tell him you’d go bare if he married you