How do I initiate giving a handjob or blowjob to my boyfriend, we’ve been together for 5 months but I’ve never gave him one need advice?

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Unsure on how to initiate giving either one as when I put my hand near or touch just in general he moves it and says it tickles so feel if I do try it he will move my hand away. We’ve had sex before but I’ve never gave him either sand he’s not very sexual so dunno what to do

Kiss_Me · Accepted Answer

The next time you get him naked allow your hands to explore. You will eventually get to his penis. Once it's in your hand just play a little. It helps to communicate so asking what feels the best is a positive thing.
You can always kiss your way down his body until your mouth can reach his penis. from there, experimentation and communication is part of the fun.

There are also tons of videos online on how to give great blowjobs. Remember, google is your friend.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It sounds to me like he would respond more readily if you just whip that thing out and get a good strong grip around the base. You're not going to hurt him doing that and it feels great. Plus if you squeeze hard enough, it'll get harder.

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When you making out with him just tell him  If he's ok pull down his pants and start stroking him. The start to suck on it. When he starts to cum ease up a bit but keep going till he's done

summiter · Answer

Just get naked with him and ask him to show you how he masturbates. Guys are experts on their penis. I find it hard to believe that he would turn down a handjob... they are wonderful!

JPrez · Answer

First, what kind of dude is this that would not want a BJ or handjob from his girlfriend. Sounds kinda beta or soy boy to me but anyways, I digress. What you do is sit him down on the couch, jump in his lap, kiss him, then work your way down and grab his junk followed by a tug of his drawers and he will be ready. If he pushes away or acts strange after that then my opinion of him as beta and soy boy is correct.

boggboss · Answer

Just start touching it if he moves it tell him to let you touch it lol

CallMeJean · Answer

Talk to him and ask him if he'd be up for it or if he wants to try it out. Ask him how he wants or likes it. Follow your gut feeling and pay attention to his reactions

Avicenna · Answer

Simply take off his pants and start

MrSkin · Answer

Sounds like he is nervous. Has he made a move on you.

Meldrum · Answer

Gently move your hand along his leg, no words are necessary. Move up the inner thigh until you come in contact with a lump. Look him directly in the eyes as you caress that lump. If he's excited you can proceed to undo his zipper. I think you know what to do from there. If not, my number is...

jakejacobson110 · Answer

Make out with him and be extra touchy. Touch around his crotch and ask if it's okay to take his pants off. If he says yes then take his pants off. Keep making out and grab his dick through the underwear. Once he is hard tell him you want to suck him off. If he doesn't say no, you are good.