How do I initiate giving a handjob or blowjob to my boyfriend, we’ve been together for 5 months but I’ve never gave him one need advice?

Unsure on how to initiate giving either one as when I put my hand near or touch just in general he moves it and says it tickles so feel if I do try it he will move my hand away. We’ve had sex before but I’ve never gave him either sand he’s not very sexual so dunno what to do
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  • It sounds to me like he would respond more readily if you just whip that thing out and get a good strong grip around the base. You're not going to hurt him doing that and it feels great. Plus if you squeeze hard enough, it'll get harder.

    Blow jobs tips from a deep throat queen ↗

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  • The next time you get him naked allow your hands to explore. You will eventually get to his penis. Once it's in your hand just play a little. It helps to communicate so asking what feels the best is a positive thing.
    You can always kiss your way down his body until your mouth can reach his penis. from there, experimentation and communication is part of the fun.

    There are also tons of videos online on how to give great blowjobs. Remember, google is your friend.

Most Helpful Girl

  • When you making out with him just tell him
    If he's ok pull down his pants and start stroking him. The start to suck on it. When he starts to cum ease up a bit but keep going till he's done

    • Beware! the asker, actually a guy, is a known troll and master spammer!

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  • Just get naked with him and ask him to show you how he masturbates. Guys are experts on their penis. I find it hard to believe that he would turn down a handjob... they are wonderful!

  • First, what kind of dude is this that would not want a BJ or handjob from his girlfriend. Sounds kinda beta or soy boy to me but anyways, I digress. What you do is sit him down on the couch, jump in his lap, kiss him, then work your way down and grab his junk followed by a tug of his drawers and he will be ready. If he pushes away or acts strange after that then my opinion of him as beta and soy boy is correct.

    • Okay I’ll give it a go thank you

  • Just start touching it if he moves it tell him to let you touch it lol

    • Okay I have expressed to him before though how it makes me feel when he does it and he still does it because it’s tickly so feel even if I did do it he wouldn’t enjoy it maybe?

    • If u don't think he would enjoy it then just don't do it until your having sex and then give it a little here before putting it in

    • Okay that’s really good advice thank you

  • Talk to him and ask him if he'd be up for it or if he wants to try it out. Ask him how he wants or likes it. Follow your gut feeling and pay attention to his reactions

    • Thanks

  • Simply take off his pants and start

    • Beware! the asker, actually a guy, is a known troll and master spammer!

  • Sounds like he is nervous. Has he made a move on you.

    • Yeah like he imitates things usually but just by the way he is when I put my hand near and him never really showing me it feel he doesn’t want me to

  • Gently move your hand along his leg, no words are necessary. Move up the inner thigh until you come in contact with a lump. Look him directly in the eyes as you caress that lump. If he's excited you can proceed to undo his zipper. I think you know what to do from there. If not, my number is...

  • Make out with him and be extra touchy. Touch around his crotch and ask if it's okay to take his pants off. If he says yes then take his pants off. Keep making out and grab his dick through the underwear. Once he is hard tell him you want to suck him off. If he doesn't say no, you are good.

  • If he’s not very sexual how do you initiate sex?

    • Always from the side never really kisses me just kind of rubs my leg then puts his finger in and then puts his dick in

    • Do you ever initiate it?

    • Tried to one morning by getting on top and kidding but he didn’t properly give back like he was interested so I didn’t take it further

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  • If your boyfriend is around your age, guys generally only think about themselves.
    Your best bet is someone a little older and more mature.

  • put your hand in his lap... press into his cock, see if he responds

  • Put your hand back on it pull it out and start sucking on it surprise the shit out of him

  • Just tell him you find giving blow jobs are a turn on.

  • If he is not very sexual, he is happy without you doing that

  • Just open your mouth

  • İs your boyfriend is uncircumcised or circumcise

    • I am the nightmare of those trolls and spammers

    • I’m not too sure I think uncircumcised but not sure hahah he is very conscious like I hardly see it even when he gets changed he puts a towel over himself where as I’m open