How do I initiate giving my boyfriend oral?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for a few months now and we have great sex and he's very comfortable giving me oral but me I'm very shy like very very shy and I want to give that experience to him as well but I don't know how to go about doing it I know I know what guy is going to turn down oral but do I tell him I want to give him head that seems a little weird or do I just do it get on top of him and do it. I haven't given oral in almost a year since my last relationship so it's kind of like new to me again. But I'm a very introverted person with a very high sex drive so I enjoy giving head once I overcome the insecurities of just doing it. So just some word of encouragement, or ladies how did you go about it the first time? Also, I'm currently on my period so that's another reason why I'm ready to take the step because I know we won't be having intercouse for a minute.

[littlebigtittyfreak]

This might not help you. But I hope it does. It helped me get ovee the fear of giving head for the first time which I did twice last Saturday night. I read articles on 10 general tips on giving head (he sent them and its general cuz there are certain things individualistic the the couple experimenting it together) and about not rushing was one of them. Just get comfortable kissing and touching and groping. When you feel ooay with it grab or touch him down there and keep rubbing. See where it goes from there. It worked for me because he ended up removing his pants so I can touch him without clothing in the way. And then I ended up kissing around his dick area to build him up as I gently touched his dick. I ended up licking his dick a few times and kissing it before I actually went down which he didn't force but he did end up grabbing my hair to try and hurry me up.

[tinyclit]

I am also very shy. I'm also sexually submissive and like sexually dominant guys. The first several times I gave him oral sex I did it because he told me to. After I got used to doing it regularly, I found I was also able to do it anytime I wanted to. I don't have to say anything. I can just pull his underwear off and start having fun. In all the years we've been together he has never once complained, or at least not that I can recall. :)

[XxamnesiaxX]

Well im shy to but i took a shower with my boyfriend and googled some tips and after the shower he asked me if i will do it and i was freaking nervous but i took a deep breath and just did it wasent that bad and he said he liked and even cum so you be fine just try but dont use teeth :)

[daber23]

Each person is going to be different with how they want to want to transfer into receiving/giving oral. I would suggest pay attention into what leads him into doing it on you and try following a similar pattern of events.

[AustinMan]

Stand him up, drop to your knees and get to work. Just in case this is helpful, I thought I'd include it:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

[linds34]

You should be making out first, then touching him there, then just go for it.

[Myranziel]

My guy turns down oral. We’ve been seeing each other for 4 months and he says he doesn’t care for it. But I love giving head. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Myranziel]

And to initiate, I start out by touching him, giving him and handy and then just going for it.

[Asker]

All guys are different I guess, my boyfriend doesn't seem like he cares that much either but I care lol I'm going to try your advice wish me luck!

[Myranziel]

Good luck!! ☺️☺️

[pervetedsycho]

@ myranziel you may like giving head.. but just maybe.. just maybe your not that good at it? if you would like a second opinion on your skills you know how to reach me. regards

[Myranziel]

No, I’ve been told many times that I am very good at it. I gave him head once for a few min, and he enjoyed it, but he said he prefers actual sex and that he feels bad when women give him head because he never cums from oral and it takes forever for him to finish with it. I wonder if maybe he’s a little insecure. Who knows.

[pervetedsycho]

I have ran into this myself.. if the head is bad.. it's still kinda good most guys for fear of never getting that from you again or dumped will lie and say you are good but yea I'm sure your skilled so don't worry.

[Myranziel]

I don’t think the guys were lying. I’ve even had a few guys say I was the best hand job and blow job they’ve had.

[Myranziel]

But I can see where you’re coming from.

[NaultD]

https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Just make out and slowly go downward. Then unbutton his pants or waistband. He'll accept it if he wants it.

[hotdude008]

Just go easy n calm down... Tell your boyfriend about ur feeling he will surely help u... N go for it...

[Artemisia8]

Dobt give him bj, penises are used to pee.
My bae says he would be turned off if i suggest him it

[Samurrr]

Tell him that you want to show how much you love him with more then a kisd. If he doesn't get the hint, just look at him in the eyes and then look down at his donger.

[Myranziel]

This 😂😂😂

[Samurrr]

IQ400 :))

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Just kiss him and Work your way down

[tinymv]

Simple, I would like it if we were making out and she grabbed my junk, eventually she pulls it out and dies her thing.

No words... just in the moment

[Anonymous]

Lay him on his back on the bed. Get on top kissing him and then slowly kiss your way down his body until you are in the position to start giving him head.

[Anonymous]

I'd only turn it down, if I knew she wasn't "clean"

[Anonymous]

I m surprised , it is his role not you.

[Anonymous]

Just go for it and slowly unzip his pants he’ll get the hint you don’t even have to say anything