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How do I know for sure that I'm good in bed?

I hooked up with a guy last night and he said a lot of times that it was good, but he also had a moment to teach me how he liked a specific thing. Is there a way to know?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Everyone enjoys different things and gets off in different ways. I find it can take months to really get to know a new partner intimately and how to please them at the highest level. If I were you I would take it as a positive sign that he is open to telling you what feels good for him. Don't hesitate to tell him what you enjoy, if you plan to see him again, and to ask him what he likes. If you want him to finish in your mouth tell him and encourage him. Some guys may find it a degrading thing to do unless they are explicitly told it's okay. Open communication is the key to a good relationship - in and out of the bedroom.

  • If you responded to his feedback, yes, you’re awesome in bed! Everyone is a little different and likes different things. So what makes any person good in bed is a willingness to observe their partner’s reactions and communications and respond according to what brings their partner the greatest pleasure, perhaps using their imagination to make it even better.

    • I did! But he wouldn't let me finish my blowjob so I don't know if it was bc he wanted to fuck or because it wasn't good

    • Or maybe he sees blowjobs as foreplay, didn’t want to cum just yet, and your blowjob was so good he wanted to move on to fucking. You should be having this conversation with him.

    • Thanks for mho!

Most Helpful Girl

  • Does it matter. You can only do your best. To the limitations of your feelings.

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  • What might please me in bed is not what would please the next guy. Some girl who is wildly enthusiastic about giving oral sex may be considered to be good in bed but that doesn't really matter if her partner doesn't care for oral sex, or if he considers the girl to be a slut.

    The only thing that really matters is whether you satisfy the partner who you want to satisfy. And only your partner can answer that question.

  • No, with a new person, trial and error. How would you know unless you as beforehand and really, most of us are hesitant to ask questions about sexual technique on a first date

  • If you're both exhausted after and he comes back around then you know. Don't focus so much on being good just have fun and keep a dirty open mind and you'll be #1

  • If he seems sincere when telling you how great you are or if he seems pensive is saying you are good then chances are, maybe not so good.

  • Most guy’s leave a tip.

  • Ask !
    No one’s good in bed to everyone. It’s hit and Miss thing. If your above average sexually, you’ll be better than a lot, but some guy may think that you’re not so good.

  • ask for feedback

  • If you have a regular partner you will learn how to provide maximum pleasure to eachother. As for casual sex, like any sex, the hottest thing is to be enthusiastic, comfortable with your own desires, and to care about your partners pleasure. You obviously care about pleasing your partner.

  • You're fine.

    He got his dick wet he's happy. Trust me.

  • If he finishes

  • If he comes back for more or really started getting you good, he enjoyed it.

    With respect, question for you. I've been trying really hard to just find a hookup, how can I find one? :) ( Please I'm really trying)

    • Well, ask someone you know would be down for it... That's what I do

    • I don't have many female friends. I asked one girl and she straight up blocked me. I have one girl I've wanted to sleep with, but she doesn't even want to hang out or anything. We were friends, she just got out of a divorce. I think of I ask to hook up it will cause a problem and it'll spread like wildfire.

    • Meet new people or maybe download tinder

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