Guys enter a relationship with the purpose of sex.
And this spawn two groups: the "hit and run", or the long-term marrying type.
Reading your details, my immediate query is, What do you want? If long term, will you marry?
And what does he want? If he's willing to wait, then when? Until marriage?
If you both are sincere, then you need to talk and understand each other's stand in this matter.
It's like drawing and agreeing on a road map. Then you both can travel together and reach your common destination.
An open and respectful talk in this apparrent small matter will avoid misunderstandings and heartaches.
I love this so much, thank you for sharing!
Welcome. And I sincerely hope the open communication leads to a good relationship of love and happiness.
Guy always want sex
So you think he is going to have sex with me and then dip?
Make him wait for it if he keeps wanting to spend time and around you he like more than just sex
Okay! I will continue to do that, thank you😊
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You ask. Also waiting can be a bad thing. If you wait until marriage then you’ll never know if he sucks at sex. Sex is an important part of a relationship. It helps you bond and helps you figure out what type of person he is. Does he care about your needs? Does he only care about his own orgasm? Etc. these things carry over into a relationship. Sex is just sex. Learn about how to be safe, take precautions, and just do it.
We're both virgins, and we both are okay with waiting. I'm just nervous that he'll dip right after we have sex.
You can know that about person, from their personality. Anyone can get good at sex if you care about your partners needs.
If he stays with you a year and really loves you he won't just dip if you guys have sex.
We always hear this from young women. The fact is, guys are wired for sex. It is just about all we think of in your age range. That doesn't mean all we want is sex. But sex is a crazy drive for us, it is just how we are wired. I have something to tell ya, you are going to be exactly like that when you hit around 40. I couldn't believe how freaking aggressive women I dated in their 40's were.
Reality is, if all he wanted was sex, there are probably a lot of easier women out there he could have gone after. The fact that he has stuck around should tell you what you need to know.
It is a shame that women put unrealistic importance on sex. I guarantee your future self, if she could come back from 15 or so years in the future, would kick your ass and tell you to just have fun. Be careful... but have fun...
Most guys I don’t think are that patient. If he’s waited a few months for you he’s probably legit.
How do you know you're in a relationship if you haven't had sex yet?
We're both waiting to have sex. Just because we don't have sex doesn't mean we're not in a relationship..
I haven't had "sex" with my "girl", we aren't in a "relationship"
Well I guess that's you. Many religious people have a girlfriend or boyfriend and then have sex after marriage.
keep your clothes on and see how long he hands around
Probably both... Your wanting the same so why should he not want to wait to have sex just to have sex?
Do you see marrying him or more just 3 year relationship?
I don't think you understand what I was trying to say? I want to be in a long term relationship. It's okay to wait for sex but what I'm scared about is if he is ONLY with me for the sex and not for the long term.
O well it is so hard to tell! Honestly start a fight and end it with being sorry se ehow he reacts if he accepts and you like how it went then keep him if you don't like it then just don't let the fight end Guys want easy sex if they even have to wait
You're right, it is hard to tell.. thank you for your suggestion! I should try that and see how it goes❤️
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